Recent content by rbecca23

I can relate to what you mean about feeling like a bad friend - I am not the initiating type when it comes to relationships, only because I don't think about it; it's not in my nature. I enjoy deep, deep relationships of any sort, but to keep it going is sometimes a challenge, because I like my...

Um.... 7 Words of Affirmation 7 Quality Time 2 Receiving Gifts 7 Acts of Service 7 Physical Touch

Totally with Seeking_Self on this one.

Yes. Yes. YES.

When I was younger, very definitely. I can't remember the specifics, but I do recall getting very involved in whatever it was. Nowadays, I tend to have minor obsessions: songs or words of the week, sometimes people in my life who I'm very fascinated with (it's more of wanting to connect, or...

Is something going on in your life Dragon? Are you considering suicide?

I totally agree with you.

I voted above average, only because I've been told I am very beautiful. I look at my face, and I guess according to contemporary standards I am attractive, but somewhere else in the world, I could be considered ugly. I'm not down on my looks, though. I'm content and am willing to take care of...

I used to be in denial about how much of an emotional being I really am. It got to the point that my emotions would eventually spill out of me uncontrollably, and I would be completely overwhelmed. Now I try to understand them more, but I'm not comfortable displaying things about myself that I...

When I was younger I used to play it up to be intimidating to my peers, but as I grew up and met various sorts of people, I learned that there is a time an a place to display what one knows, and it isn't all of the time. There are people out there who will appreciate your smarts and there are...

I had never realized this about divorce laws and what becomes of the fathers of so many children. I have to admit that women tend to be flaky, and the more men I've dated, the more I realize that I have committed issues compared to them; they want commitment, and a family. But I can't help...

Funny that you should post this. I've been wondering the exact same thing and am having to step out of myself to re-figure out who I really am and want to be. Sure, I'm an INFJ, today. But what about tomorrow? In terms of who a person is, I think we are all blank canvases that have been...

British humor really tickles my fancy - sarcastic, or unassuming moments in life that deserve attention but don't get it are always the funniest things to me. Random things that pop out of nowhere tend to get my vote, for some reason. Think of it as those square pegs trying to fit into round...

@TurtleTrooper - High expectations aren't a bad thing, but I wonder why you keep so closed up. Does it not flatter you that these people are trying to get inside your shell and understand who you are? Most people who aren't INFJs don't understand the whole need we have to withdraw, but once...

Second chances are deserved for those who recognize that they are available. If you miss it, maybe you're not ready for it. I do believe those opportunities are given to everyone, just not the insincere, or the closed-minded. Just be open to the flow of your stream, and avoid complacency.