Recent content by RandomINTP123

Thanks for your kind words, I do feel good about how it was handled. It feels strange and sad though, going from speaking every single day since May, to probably no longer speaking. Yesterday was the first day we hadn't said a word to each other. I also feel bad because some months ago he...

@ErikAlberto thanks for your story and advice. I started pulling away again but this time I explained to him why, and that it's too difficult for me to deal with all this. I also told him that it's not his fault and it's my problem to deal with, and that I'd need distance. He said he...

Ummm, at times it has been harder than I'd like to admit but I think that I'd be ok for the most part. I tried putting myself out there again somewhat, started talking to other people but his comment about missing me did suddenly throw me off and put me on a high again. I asked him why he made...

I guess I should update you kind folk. He recently told me over text that he feels like he is missing me, so I made a typical INTP silly joke in response (I was kind of caught off guard tbh). He then said he was being for real, he missed my presence and he likes being around me, and that we...

That's true. I have no regrets either way, I already expressed how I feel and sometimes still do but in silly ways usually. I guess if he's interested there's nothing much in the way besides his trauma and/or own interpretation of our situation.

He said he likes my spirit and it's rare to find someone that he actually clicks with. He also said that he likes me / hanging with me (I can't clarify this part any further lol), that I'm cool and kinda funny. Other than that he never really expressed much of anything.

I don't expect him to be eager because I know he's in defense mode and emotionally unstable (his words) after his last relationship. I only joined to ask so that I could get another perspective from potentially like minded people. I do agree that I deserve someone that doesn't leave me guessing...

Didn't think you were, sorry if it came across that way :grin:

Umm...I've been single by choice for the past 2+ years...I'm in no rush really. The hard part in this situation is that I rarely find myself actively liking anyone, or even thinking of pursuing anyone. It kinda caught me off guard how much I liked him and how quickly, it's almost stressful in a...

You're probably right. I guess I will just have to work on letting it go and not waste my energy and time. Letting it go is the hard part, especially since he chooses to communicate with me so often. I don't know the reason why but I think I need to not read into it anymore...but who am I...

I don't really intend to bring it up again to be honest. I'm just at a place where I'm not sure it makes sense to hold onto the idea that more can happen. Can't help how I feel either, and it's a bit difficult to think myself out of this one unfortunately.

I've been talking to an INFJ guy for about 2+ months now, we hung out a few times and eventually I was pretty straight forward with how I felt about him, and told him that I liked him several times. He mentioned that he recently broke up with his ex and felt like he gave his all and wasn't sure...