Recent content by Ramjet

Yeah...that's kinda my 6 month plan. Get past the initial are you going to be "sare" / "dependable" background check phase. If nothing has changed then as you say...tell her how I feel and the door is open on my side if she ever changes her mind.

Also people usually know deep down if they have a chance... I mean if you posses certain bit of self honesty and don't delude yourself. Trust your gut. That's the thing...deep down my gut tells me she actually interested just very cautious. I like that plan. In 6 months we'll see if anything...

So that's interesting. 6 months is the boundary she put in place before she would let kids meet me. I liked that boundary and implemented the reverse. Last night she wanted to give something to my daughter and I brought up the concern of violating her own boundary rule. She said no her kids know...

Thank You! She has reached out to me before in terms of initiating contact when I didn't send her any message needing a reply so I will as you say keep that faith. But yeah the input from everyone here seems to be let it go. Don't slam the door just let it go.

That line of thinking is what had me thinking to fade to black last night. Not so much against her as me. It hurts and someday some guy will come along and get the connection I longed for...That'll suck big time to be "friends" when that day happens.

OK INFJ's I know you can't read her mind or look in a crystal ball I just need some advice here. (BTW She claims to have tested INFJ and I know I tested ENTP) Fade to black or be patient? I met an INFJ through a mutual friend about a month ago. The friend said we would be like two peas in a...