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    INPUT APPRECIATED. What do I get INFJ boyfriend for 1 year anniversary?

    Stu Thanks! I like your name! (It's my roommate's name.) I may try the flowers, we'll see. :)
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    INPUT APPRECIATED. What do I get INFJ boyfriend for 1 year anniversary?

    bamf Thank you. That's very kind. I'm a music major and it's kind of what I'd like to do with my life, so it's also pretty encouraging.
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    INPUT APPRECIATED. What do I get INFJ boyfriend for 1 year anniversary?

    CrazyBeautiful That's an awesome idea! Thanks so much! I might really do that!
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    INPUT APPRECIATED. What do I get INFJ boyfriend for 1 year anniversary?

    UBERROGO I assume a lot of it is because he has a large amount of assignments (we're both finishing undergrad). Who knows, later in life, he might be a reader. But in this season, he definitely is not. If I did get him a book, though, it would be The Fault In Our Stars by John Green, because...
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    INPUT APPRECIATED. What do I get INFJ boyfriend for 1 year anniversary?

    UBERROGO Even if he's not really much of a reader?
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    INPUT APPRECIATED. What do I get INFJ boyfriend for 1 year anniversary?

    CrazyBeautiful Probably between $100-$200. He's very passionate about God. He leads a Bible study. He loves his major and his minor as well (Engineering/Japanese).
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    INPUT APPRECIATED. What do I get INFJ boyfriend for 1 year anniversary?

    Here's the deal, y'all: We're coming up on one year, which is pretty remarkable because we're long distance and we see each other about (a minimum of) once a month. I want to get something/do something for him that is memorable without being overly cheesy and "romantic." Something he'd use would...
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    INFJ + ENFP

    It can work! We (ENFPs) are not all completely insane. I do think it's a question of maturity. Eventually, at least a little bit, we get over the need for something new and exciting, especially in long-term relationships. Maybe because the satisfaction of being with one person for that long IS...
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    Enfp females: The Infj male destroyers?

    Hi, there. First of all, sorry for your luck with the ENFP you're affectionately deeming the destroyer. We do tend to bounce around a lot, so, on behalf of my kind, I'd like to apologize. Now, that being said, I do think it is an issue of maturity. It's almost like we're programmed to seek...