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  • Have you tried online dating?? Dating can be scary and awkward- but it's something that only becomes easier if you recognize that all first dates are going to be this way! No matter how often you date :) So that means you just have to jump in, remind yourself that YOU ARE awesome! And see the men fawn all over you! Also, online dating is a great way to test the waters. You can go on, and even just chat to some single guys, without having to make any commitments!
    Hey! Thanks for the rep. I would be glad to give some ideas. I have always loved insanity as a morning workout. It gets your heart going, it builds muscle and all in under an hour. I would suggest it to anybody, even if it can get extreme.
    Congratulations on starting your healing journey!

    I would love to chat with you about energy, perhaps we can set a date?
    unfortunately i think you have to get 1000 posts before you can change.

    as far as the moniker...i don't really know. It used to be RememberWhenItRained, which everyone would shorten to RWIR, rawr was just easier.
    I too joined another forum prior to joining this one, and, like you, have found this one to be much more active and engaging. Additionally, thanks for the rep!
    Yeah I haven't been on here in quite some time. The military keeps me busy more often than not.

    I agree though that there seems to be a rather small amount of us on the forums. We are here though, but we tend to lurk.
    Yup, I recently fought off a second round of cancer, among other things.

    Welcome to the forum, by the way. It's pretty cozy here.
    Thanks for the rep comment! Are you in academia? Or familiar with it? I'm always looking for advice/tips/experience! This next year I feel I need to decide to pursue a faculty position, or a managerial one! I don't know which one suits me more!
    You're welcome! Yeah I couldn't believe it, I thought you were lying about your age on your profile! So shocked still :) Tell me some of your secrets lol :p

    Yes I am from Canada! There's a lot of us here on the forums ^__^ I'm from Edmonton. How about you??
    Thanks for joining us! I can only hope that you enjoy this place as much as I do! :)
    I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE Lush! I love their gold bath bar! I haven't seen one around in our local stores for awhile- but it's like bathing in liquid gold! It's amazing!!!
    Many questions you ask that I have no answer for. My brother died 16 years ago. When I put that time here its almost unbelievable to me. Time is moving so fast now. Too fast.
    Anyway, I dont know reasons why things are the way they are. I look at life differently now for a variety of reasons. Back then though I felt so many things. I felt if I had been smarter, could have used better words, if I had more feeling or a better way to communicate with him things might have turned out differently. But lets be serious for a second. In the end the only person I really feel anything for is me. My brother no matter where he is, is in a better place than here. Its not him I have to worry about. Its me and the fact I am that much more alone without him in this world. Its selfishness that allows me to be sad and angry hes not around anymore.
    I only hope theres some hope that hoping beyond hope he still exists in someway and that hes whole and at peace is possible.
    :)
    I dont know :) I just tried to respond and ended up with a page of nonsense. "Had" because hes no longer of this earth. Insignificant because no matter what I said to him, the end result was that he is no longer here. I just...I guess I thought of myself as someone who was more important for some reason. Its difficult to type this on a phone... :)
    Could speculate forever about meaning. I think though if I had to guess... I had some amount of feeling toward my brother. His absence is an absence of part of who I saw myself as. A piece of me. Part of me is still angry to this day that I was so insignificant to him that my attempt to change him, to get him to realize what he was doing to himself wasnt good didnt mean either enough or anything to help save him. That may be it.
    Welcome!
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