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    What is a normal amount of jealousy or control in a relationship?

    Are you trying to say I’m a whore for that? It wasn’t even a date, but I was going out with a student who was moving back overseas. For your information I am a virgin, and simply want to get married and have children in the near future, and I’ve been waiting for my bf who moved back over seas...
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    What is a normal amount of jealousy or control in a relationship?

    I had done that where I just wanted to keep in touch with certain people, and I kept decreasing the number until it was down to just one person, a guy who was kind of like a brother to me because he’d given me lots of advice about previous relationships and all, and I told my bf but he ended up...
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    What is a normal amount of jealousy or control in a relationship?

    We had talked about it multiple times in the beginning of our relationship... At first we agreed on neither of us talking on the phone or hanging out with the other gender, but that texting was ok. I guess we’re both jealous people, so i thought it seemed like a happy medium, and I was...
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    What is a normal amount of jealousy or control in a relationship?

    It was a very complicated situation. I never lied to him or anything like that until after he lied to me, and I lost respect for him for a while and my logic was “he’s a liar so he’s probably cheating on me anyway”. All I did was go to a fast food restaurant and a church gathering with a guy I...
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    What is a normal amount of jealousy or control in a relationship?

    He does get upset if I have guys on my social media accounts. Only one he didn’t seem to care about (aside from family) was a family friend (my moms friends son)... and he has also told me to show him my phone before... I did tell him I’d show him my phone/messages any time though.
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    What is a normal amount of jealousy or control in a relationship?

    Not exactly. Loooong before that situation ever happened he told me he didn’t want me to talk to guys outside of work. Despite that I went out (to a fast food restaurant and a church gathering) with a guy I tutor, and further lost his trust, so at this point, I can’t blame him for being a bit...
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    [INFJ] Why do ENFPs like us?

    I’m an INFJ and my mom is an ENFP! We’re like best friends but me being an introvert, I’ll sometimes feel like I desperately need space, but my mom will be like “don’t leave me! I’m bored” lol My mom also tested as an INFJ, and I thought it was strange that we both had the same personality type...
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    What is a normal amount of jealousy or control in a relationship?

    That makes a lot of sense... my “guy friends” were guys I talked to online and never actually met (language learning partners) so I could kind of understand why he didn’t trust them though. For work, I tutor adults in one on one lessons (including males) so he was worried about it but didn’t...
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    What is a normal amount of jealousy or control in a relationship?

    I’m an INFJ, and my ENTP boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. Sometimes he can be pretty controlling and jealous. He didn’t like for me to have male friends, so I cut off all of my male friends about a year into our relationship because it was causing a lot of arguments. of...
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    Signs that an INFJ likes a person

    I can really relate to this!
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    Are INFJ's really that rare?

    In my opinion, wouldn’t any introverted type SEEM a bit more rare since introverted people are more likely to spend time by themselves? Lol I was just thinking about this the other day because almost everyone I know is an extrovert.
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    [INFJ] two questions for you infjs?

    Intuition, I guess as for knowing I don’t like certain people but not knowing why until later, I have a few experiences. I don’t remember having any experiences when I was really little, but I was raised by a single mom, and she had a few guy friends (not boyfriends but what she was thinking of...
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    [INFJ] INFJ and ENTP relationship?

    Sounds a bit like my boyfriend... Ive been dating an ENTP for 2 and a half years, but he has PTSD from child abuse so from what I’ve read, I think he uses Fe more under stress. He doesn’t usually tell me if he’s stressed though, and then sudddnly gets upset and afterwards tells me he’s been...
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    How do you like being comforted?

    Generally I withdraw a lot. My mom is an ENFP with PTSD so she gets really emotional so I guess I always felt like I have to be strong so I don’t worry her. I would hardly ever cry in front of her, but even when I did it was usually from being injured or extremely angry, but I would never cry...