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    There's No Such Thing As An Outgoing Introvert

    I saw this article post on my feed. I honestly don't really agree with it fully. His examples are all things I'd genuinely love to do and I'm a pretty genuine introvert. That said, I wouldn't want to do them all the time or be in the spotlight. And I'd need to find some time to quietly slip...
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    [INFJ] have you ever been wrong?

    Yes and no Every time I've had a feeling about a person or situation, there was truth in that feeling. I was right, and that feeling has never been wrong. At the same time, I've been wrong a lot in how I interpret or act on that feeling. I.E. someone does a bunch of little bits of behavior...
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    Any INFJs Earning Six Figures?

    I wish I could remember where I found this information too but I do remember reading that the biggest reason why wage gap exists in gender is because women in the workplace often feel like they are not in their place to be asking for raises or negotiating pay, a kind of self-fulfilling prophecy...
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    Any INFJs Earning Six Figures?

    I don't necessarily agree with this. Sure I have no real desire to be rich. Chasing money your whole life is a fools game where you are just trying to get a number higher and higher. For what purpose? But if I made 6 figures, there's a lot I could do with it. Travel the world. Invest into...
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    [INFJ] infj and reading people

    I think this is mostly what it boils down to. I'm an extremely observant person. I've been doing it all my life, and spend most of my waking hours observing something in some way so have become quite good at it. Sometimes it's only small little things I observe while busy with other things...
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    The games men play

    Frankly I think the elephant in the room is simply put a large amount of people have ridiculous relationship expectations, and maintain them for far longer than you'd reasonably expect an adult to. Playing games just happens to be the way a lot of more socially peppy, casually manipulative, or...
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    [INFJ] What did you learned from each failed relationship?

    Hey! I'm 26. I count, right? Girl #1: I don't like girls. Closet time! Guy #1: Who you think you know online isn't necessarily who it really is in person. I don't work well with hard introverts. He understood me deeply though. We could definitely be good friends again if his world wasn't...
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    Searching for love outside yourself

    Thanks for sharing. Going through something similar. I wouldn't say I have no love for myself. Some days I feel quite confident. But I can't ignore the fact that I only feel like that in isolation, if there is no one else involved. Whenever anyone else is involved (friend or otherwise) I...
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    Power of confirmation bias

    Too true. Case in point: when I get hurt by someone's actions, it is all too easy to just assume it was personal. Then I establish distance, and find myself for months getting lost in negative thought patterns that focus on those moments as confirmation that said person must be this...
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    Subcultures and Social Habits.

    PC gaming subculture since I was young, slightly drifted from this though. By that I don't mean "I play PC games, therefore subculture", but more or less being very active on forum communities focused on PC gaming and the things the topics they tend to involve themselves in. There exists a...