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Recent content by lucidflutterby

  1. lucidflutterby

    "Miss Independent"

    I understand your point of you and whether or not you believe so, I do respect it. I do believe that there is a certain pressure in society as far as women are concerned and I never debate that. I have only said that the way women decide to raise their children is faulty in my opinion. And many...
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    "Miss Independent"

    I now recognize boundaries. Thank you sansei. (bow in respect)
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    "Miss Independent"

    Agreed.
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    "Miss Independent"

    BTW, video games are new but porn and gambling are ancient. Prove how the independent woman is responsible for their existence. Did she invent them? I don't think I ever concluded women had anything to do with there existence. I do however believe that women neglect their roles as mothers...
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    "Miss Independent"

    I will refer back to my post: I am simply stating that perhaps it does take root within the family and the attachment we have with it.
  6. lucidflutterby

    "Miss Independent"

    The bottom line is that parents have to make their own choices and accept responsibility for them. Precisely.
  7. lucidflutterby

    "Miss Independent"

    This game is really fun.
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    "Miss Independent"

    You don't seem to be surprised by much.
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    "Miss Independent"

    I think you are assuming I'm snubbing my nose when in all reality I am really just stating the obvious. You don't have children so you don't understand the connection you need to have with a child. I am speaking entirely from experience. I don't have any issue with a woman providing for her...
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    "Miss Independent"

    hahaha okay, fair enough. And I do have a man to annoy. It gets old. So I come on here to annoy you. ;)
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    "Miss Independent"

    I agree that you can live your own life by your own standards. Who is really going to take that away from you? And as far as you living your life without being married or having children, I also don't feel that is an obligation. I do however feel as if many women keep themselves childless to...
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    "Miss Independent"

    This is something I think about quite often actually. This denial of self sacrifice as a woman and being chastised for it. Many of the women in my family fall under the definition you gave. They all have careers and have had multiple abortions to keep themselves independent (not that I am a pro...
  13. lucidflutterby

    To Hold or not to Hold.

    I love being affectionate all the time. If it is in public, so be it. I really don't concern myself with what others think regarding that. I feel if you are uncomfortable with that it is because you have issues with affection... and that is your issue. If people look at me that is also their...
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    INFs and jokes.

    Really? :( Story of my life.
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    How do you relate to your avatar?

    It's exactly where I want to be.