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  1. Loki

    How can I gain an INFJ's forgiveness after fucking up in a major way?

    Thank you for understanding. The latest update is a bit of an anticlimax I'm afraid...I sent her the 2 page version of my letter at the beginning of last school year, and she never replied. I did have an amusing semester with her though...I fell in love with this girl who, I found out later on...
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    How can I gain an INFJ's forgiveness after fucking up in a major way?

    Thanks for this. I definitely see your point about the letter not sounding so remorseful. The reason for that is that I went through a phase of being overly-remorseful. She knows how sorry I am. I'm glad you say that being totally honest is the best way to go about it, because that's why I...
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    How can I gain an INFJ's forgiveness after fucking up in a major way?

    DimensionX-- I never said any of those supposed quotes you just attributed to me. Please don't do that ever again. I am not angry at anyone, and I am not doing this for a crush. Not getting a reply immediately is a good sign. At worst it shows that they haven't gotten around to dealing...
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    How can I gain an INFJ's forgiveness after fucking up in a major way?

    I'm not looking for forgiveness, I already gave that to myself a long time ago. I'm looking to get a friend back.
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    How can I gain an INFJ's forgiveness after fucking up in a major way?

    Just an update to give the thread some closure for now: I sent the letter last Tuesday on 8/17/2010. Here is the final version.
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    How can I gain an INFJ's forgiveness after fucking up in a major way?

    That's so funny...the quote from Lincoln's first inaugural address you have as your signature used to be at the ending of this letter. I took it out to reduce the length. Truly beautiful words. You both are right that this is a selfish letter. And I am a selfish person. I do good deeds and...
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    How can I gain an INFJ's forgiveness after fucking up in a major way?

    Here is the letter in its current form. If anyone is interested in reacting to it in any way, please do, I would greatly appreciate the feedback.
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    The strangely accurate personality Test

    I would definitely consider myself an ENTP by nature, but this test just gave me ENTJ! I spent a significant portion of my life "being" an INTP because I was depressed, and then as an ENFJ because I was trying to be a perfect person. I've suspected I may have developed a partial ability to...
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    Are you ever intimidated by very attractive people?

    Hahaha I do the exact same thing. I've never used the word "collect" out loud though, for fear of creeping people out or making them think I see them as collectibles instead of as individual human beings. It's very important to me to connect with everyone on personal level. I do my best to avoid...
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    Are you ever intimidated by very attractive people?

    If we're talking about physical and psychological attractiveness, then...maybe? Then again, not really. I take pleasure in treating everyone as an equal, especially if most people wouldn't see it that way. That means treating a five year old kid with the same deference (or lack thereof) and...
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    Oh my God Ria you're amazing.

    Oh my God Ria you're amazing.
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    How can I gain an INFJ's forgiveness after fucking up in a major way?

    Hahaha. I don't share your confidence that it will be a flop, but apart from that, I couldn't agree more. I'm just waiting to send it until I've heard back from some people what they think of it. Then I'm going to sit on it a week, read it again, see it if still sounds good, and then send it.
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    How can I gain an INFJ's forgiveness after fucking up in a major way?

    That is what I am doing. Most of it, at the very least.
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    How can I gain an INFJ's forgiveness after fucking up in a major way?

    This is an open message to everyone who has posted here: First and foremost, thank you all for your feedback. I've had trouble keeping abreast of the discussion. I think my lack of input is the root cause of the thread getting a bit derailed, so I apologize for that. Let me be clear on a few...