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  • I sent you my thoughts and edited version of the letter via your private email address. Look out for it, and good luck!!
    Thank you for this haha. Don't worry, it takes a lot to get to me.

    I see what you're saying about the apology letters. I've had similar experiences. Hopefully this one goes better.
    By the way... I just wanted to let you know that I believe you really are a decent person with a lot of potential. Don't let all those other INFJs get to you... they've all just got this alarm going off in their heads because someone said she had a "restraining order" without understanding the details. That's all. You're not a bad person, at worst you're a lonely one that misses their best friend.

    When I was younger, back in High School or Middle School... I used to send people 5 paragraph apologies when I felt I'd offended them. What I eventually found out was that the long apologies were creeping them out more than whatever I'd done in the first place. People tend to think it's weird if you write a lot to them. As you can see from the way everyone else is responding to you, it's setting off false alarms and making them accuse you of things.
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