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i asked this among friends. got 100 responses. putting it on a map has been a learning experience, seeing how diverse my friends are, there's been so few repeated words, surprisingly. thanks to OP for the idea. the only infj amongst them answered "hell". i feel sad for it, but it is as it is...

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thank you all for sharing. I think I'll go down to the bookstore sometime this weekend to browse some of your titles. Books have always been a sort of salve and enlightenment. Had heard about Randy Pausch's The Last Lecture for a while, but never got down to reading it. Searched for it just...

And why - be it in terms of sharing insight, changing a perspective, being a catalyst for enlightenment, inspiration to make you want to be better, or sheer, unadulterated fun relief etc? if relevant, include the age-range/life stage that the particular book appealed to you as well...

my head is spinning from all the notes I've made. I do have a question: how do i know if an infj means what he says (i.e. without any need for open/further intepretation), if assuming, there's all these background analysis and expectations going on, i'd be right to think then that there's a...

*parks self in thread with pen and paper and takes notes*

I like makeup! It's fun! The face and body is a beautiful canvas, and i think if one is using it to bring out the attractiveness within, why not. =) Also for work, it is more professional in my line - clients expect someone well-growned, professional, and we don't always wake up with perky...

what is important to her? If an INFJ holds family, faith and love as their mainstays of life, and she loves you, if you were to put her in this position of having to choose between the three, i don't see how that will not create a huge dissonance within her and tear her apart. while her...

By living it perhaps... you learn to love someone, and yourself, by the little choices we make everyday - are we choosing to be kind, respectful, trustworthy, someone who can be trusted. honesty, emotional authenticity. i've found that like attracts like - it is hard to love/be loved if one is...

A million scarlet roses - Alla Pugacheva www.youtube.com/watch?v=cE7W8q905Q4 The story of a painter who turned his life into flowers for an actress. I wonder for whom I would turn my life to roses for.

Because most people do not really care about something, unless it happens to them. It is easier for most people to inflict pain and seek pardon, than to be the one inflicted and have to forgive. Whether cheating is right/wrong... depends on the individual. I've ended a friendship which...

I struggle with conflict. On the surface I'm non-reactive/reasoned. But inside, it's a turmoil of emotions and stress building up. Sometimes my head hurts. The worst part is before and after the confrontation, when what-ifs scenarios keep playing through my head, and the conflict gets...

Hi there, I've been lurking and wondering to post or not for a while - your thread was hard personally in many ways. I can only speak for children, as I've volunteered with abused/ abandoned/ delinquent children and teens. - children will not be able to fully understand why you're walking...