Recent content by lifeisamaze

i'm wondering if others have worked out their enneagram number, and what most infjs on here are - i have heard that most are 4s, followed by 1s in theory and i am keen to see if that works out in practice! i'm a sp 1

hmmm, yes it seems so. and i think it is the emotion thing. i value being in touch with my emotions though would only ever express them when i trust someone. so it kind of burns that i have trusted her with them and she has rejected that trust i guess.... especially after all this time. but, i...

yes.... can it ever work do you think or should i just cut my losses and distance her?

im 29 and she is 28. so we've been friends for over 15 years.... i just wish i understood how she thinks but i think the F vs T thing has really come between us.

hi everyone, i feel like i have just broken up with my oldest friend. we've known each other since we were 13/14 and were each others bridesmaids. she has spent the last few months not talking to me, and i have been wondering what is going on. we finally emailed about it over the last few days...

thanks so much for pointing me towards that test. i hadn't done it previously, and just completed it then. I got INFJ... but i had to laugh at the totality of the result: By focusing on the strongest configuration of cognitive processes, your pattern of responses most closely matches...

von hase - I just caught up on the thread you started. it does seem we are thinking through similar things! have you reached any conclusions yet? soulful - thanks for the welcome! as far as i am concerned on the I/E question, I'd class myself as an I - no questions - due to the recharge time...

hi everyone, i'm new to posting on the forum, though a long-time reader! i thought you might be able to help me discern my type. i test as an INFJ (mbti) and INFj (socionics), however have a couple of queries with it. on the INFJ vs ENFJ front - a couple of my friends are determined...