Recent content by Lavarule

Looking forward to hearing your story. And I want to thank both of you. This whole conversation has been very enlightening. After some serious contemplation, I'm cautiously optimistic. At the very least, I think I understand what's been going on now.

Haha, nah, I don't care about being pretty open in this context. This is the perfect environment for that, and I do want to figure myself out. I want to address the conclusions you've sorted from this: And I hated it both times. It was my fault because I made bad assumptions and was...

Thanks for this. What really struck me about was the part about there being no security for either of us. I feel your same struggle. It's difficult to find a woman I'm genuinely interested in, and when I do she doesn't consistently reciprocate my interest. That's the heart of the...

Again with your word choices. Fetish is a harsh term. Please understand that these women that have peaked my interest are pretty amazing. Careers, social lives, family, etc... Outside of their reluctance to engage in romantic relationships, they are very stable individuals. Trust me, if I...

Excellent points. I know two that I believe are INFJ - one told me that's what she tested, and she's definitely not an INFP. The other I'm assuming, but I know her pretty well, and I'm pretty sure. I do have another friend that claims she's an INFJ, but she's likely a mistyped INFP and...

Normally great advice. A few things. First off, in this situation, I'm as guilty of the hot/cold thing as she is. Something I'm trying to change. Second, I have moved on. Completely distanced myself from this woman for about 6 months, but she's popped back up into my life recently...

Recently I've discovered that most of the women I've ever been seriously attracted to were INFJs. So I have some questions about a current situation I would like to discuss. The background, this woman is part of my social circle. Last year we got pretty close, thought maybe she wanted to be...