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Recent content by kylabenson

  1. kylabenson

    Overdefensiveness, lack of discernment, and regret

    evidently non at all, or at least non that i would ever so openly admit to! oh dear, this discussion is done, (worlds apart)
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    Overdefensiveness, lack of discernment, and regret

    reply to lurker, you still dont get it, your comment is all about 'men' if you read mine properly of opose to disecting for means of point scoring, you would see i am talking about life, not 'men' pointless argument now,
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    Overdefensiveness, lack of discernment, and regret

    Response to the following: I still have a problem with this. If the attention is unwanted why should a women have to feel or project flattery? I don't suggest being rude without reason but why should they have to put a man's ego first and make up an excuse rather than bluntly saying I’m not...
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    how mad is this huh?

    welcome judy, its good to have you on board take care ky x
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    Overdefensiveness, lack of discernment, and regret

    It appears there are 2 topics to the initial; I have a problem. I suffer from over-defensiveness on the one extreme, and total lack of discernment on the other. Here's the example... On 1 hand it speaks of what should i do if i guy comes on to me when all i want is a platonic relationship...
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    Overdefensiveness, lack of discernment, and regret

    Reply to: Sumone Kyla, I wasn't talking about men who are simply asking you out on a date or even flirting. These guys trample all over your boundaries grabbing your hair and pressing their face into it (that one happened to me too) or pinning you to your car - abnormal behaviour. What do they...
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    Overdefensiveness, lack of discernment, and regret

    I do NOT believe there is any excuse for nastiness whatsoever! whether it be a Janitor a Bin-man or some filthy rich successful businessman the mere fact that someone has admirable feelings towards you should be flattery of the up most and should be not only perceived as such but acknowledged...
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    Who here is suffering from anomie?

    I believe the world is structured, just wired wrongly. Politics will never have the moral high ground thus renders all structure in the civilised world.. as total bollox, It's structure is fascism to the extreme, and all the 'Sheep' totally unwittingly adhere to it, because it's right, -...
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    how mad is this huh?

    to nobleknight. aww very kind words.. thank you :-)
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    What's your cause?

    if i had a magic wand, i would want to take all the suffering out of the world, all the mindless, reckless killing.. a world without ego. and power, just peace and harmony, i know thats not gonna happen, but the voices of the innocent scream more to me above any, i.e children, so i just help...
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    how mad is this huh?

    Thank you all for your comments, and please keep them coming.. Stumbling upon this site is probably the best soul fulfilling action that has ever happened to me.. my god how i thought i was losing the plot, i spent the best parts of a day reading peoples comments and thoughts on this site...
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    how mad is this huh?

    Message in reply to Gloomy-optimist your Q; Does anyone here feel like they have a higher purpose, somehow? Like they just couldn't be content in the normal rat race; like they have something much more important that they need to do or find? There was something which i deliberately left...
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    how mad is this huh?

    Tell me.. Do any of you feel like you know something no one else does, as though you are apart of some 'elite club'.. i think im talking spiritual here, though im unsure, but it is as if you know and have seen the 'bigger picture', 'what matters' what its all about, and that all this is just...