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Recent content by Kaipaus

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    Why Charity Doesn't Work

    I don't think that being poor and needing help means that one is somehow worse than the givers/helpers, or less normal. I give money to charity, knowing that if I was in a position in which I needed help, I would be glad to get the help that I needed. Giving money to the poor actually makes me...
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    Social anxiety and Ti in INFJ's

    This is interesting. I definitely think that my Ti has been stronger than my Fe for most of my life. I've enjoyed schoolwork (math) and analysing stuff, and although I have wanted to please people and felt socially anxious (which I think are manifestations of Fe), I really have never felt...
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    ADD/ADHD in INFJs

    I know because I've been diagnosed and because - I lose stuff all the time - I often forget or am unaware that I'm supposed to be somewhere or do something - I forget little things all the time-- such as taking money with me when I'm going to the grocery store, taking my key with me when I leave...
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    (Survey) INFx - N versus F

    INFJ! Introversion: 58 Intuition: 84 Feeling: 58 Judging: 53 Yep, my intuition is stronger than my feeling.
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    Multiple Intelligences.

    It says that my top three intelligences are self, nature and musical. Not completely true. I wonder if the question "I am always totally honest with myself" measured one's "self" intelligence or "self" UNintelligence. To that question I replied: "Describes me very little." Who would always be...
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    Can you really fall for someone you don't know that well?

    Yes! Quite a few people have confessed that they have feelings for me. I find it very problematic. Before the other person's confession, I may have thought nothing in particular of the person in question, but after the confession, I feel annoyed whenever the person comes close to me and I...
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    I Need Your Input!!

    I don't know you all that well but when I saw your video in the INFJ, INFP and ENFJ difference videos thread, I thought of T, especially Ti and INTP. I don't know much about what types actually look like and how they actually behave, so my two cents isn't probably very accurate :)
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    NF, NT, SP, and SJ

    Btw, I tried to type my mom's family (her mom, dad, sisters and brothers) and I typed nearly everyone as NFs. That can't be correct, though, because NFs are so rare and because my mom has told me that when she was a child, she felt like an alien in her own family. Perhaps I'm just trying to be...
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    NF, NT, SP, and SJ

    Yeah. And where I live, in Finland, people are more introverted than in Southern Europe or the USA.
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    Does Fe Drain You?

    Yes, I believe that Fe drains me. Relating to others and socializing drains me. Then again, too much of anything is draining.
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    [PUG] Usefulness of Philosophy

    I think that philosophy is very important and has a valuable role in society. The role of the philosophy of science and ethics is especially easy to see in my opinion. Besides, the importance of philosophy is not necessarily its use as a tool for something else, but its value in itself. I just...
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    INFJ Intuition

    Wow, unbelievable. That's totally psychic. I haven't had similar experiences.
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    Narcissism in the culture

    Yeah. I noticed, for example, on a certain message board (not this one), that there was a culture that fed narcissism on the message board. There were several persons on the forum that everyone remembered and seemed to respect, and they were always being mean to other people. I wonder if they...
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    Narcissism in the culture

    Ha, I found a great animation in the spirit of celebrity narcissism: Personally I wonder why most people who hate Tyra seem to gate her because she talks about herself so much. Talking about oneself can be annoying, sure, but it's mostly harmless. But being mean is another thing. It's not...
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    Narcissism in the culture

    Ah, ok. I'm sorry for bitching at you then...