If he just started seeing a counselor than means he is taking the necessary steps to become better(took him long enough....). Although, he has to become pensive and look inward for the answers. He has to be happy before he can make you happy. Communicate the disintegration of the relationship...
Well i stand corrected. I saw mysticism/magic and made an presumptuous interconnection which doesn't exist. And yeah, true that on the efficiency remark.
The conscious mind tricking the lump of tissue that produces it. Crazy. I'm not very knowledgeable on the subject but i do reckon that everything can and will be explained thru neuroscience. I think this concept has too many metaphysically undertones which can severely stigmatize it's...
Thank you guys for the amicable input! I think i am going to wait it out another year (/like the idea of not rushing). I'm growing healthy habits of self education. This lovely forum showed me, http://academicearth.org.
@ Troisi- It's really hard for me not to get influenced by external...
When I feel any negative emotion my existence becomes apparent. I reckon contemplation and wander does the same. That's when i feel most alive. For me it's very hard to capture happiness esp. in the moment at least. I guess i'm more aware of negative connotative emotions than positive ones.
I don't have any friends or family who are adequately equipped to give me any wise or rational advice. From what I've encounter I see their arbitrary biases seep into any suggestion. A mixture of what i want to hear and what's best for them. I also don't want to be burdensome and make them...