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Recent content by juju1

  1. J

    Confused over a straight INFJ

    QMTA what do you think her reaction would be if I admitted this to her but made it clear Im not trying to get with her? Would it completely scare her off or would she try to mediate it and salvage a friendship? I honestly think the former would be preferable atm because the 'friendship' is...
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    Confused over a straight INFJ

    I would never try to go beyond it. But I do sometimes consider confessing to her when I get overwhelmed. Like, some mornings if I'm expecting her to come into the shop and she doesn't, or is later than usual, then every time I see a person moving past the window in my peripheral vision, im...
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    Confused over a straight INFJ

    Yes and that is exactly why I would never mention any of this directly to her or try anything, I hope that's not the impression I gave. If this happened to me a year ago I highly doubt I would even have the inclination to post about it. However, over the past 9 months Ive had 2 incidents of...
  4. J

    Confused over a straight INFJ

    Thank you for responding. I appreciate your comment. What you said is very interesting because I made a female INTP friend (confirmed by test, as is the INFJ) when I started uni and your description rings really true. While our friendship was slower of a burn than with my INFJ friend, it was...
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    Confused over a straight INFJ

    That is really helpful advice, thank you. I have tried to do something similar in my head to be honest, I pretty much sat myself down one day and said ok, you have to stop thinking about this because its never going to go anywhere, and here are the reasons why. Though I suppose I focused mainly...
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    Confused over a straight INFJ

    That makes a lot of sense @Wyote, I definitely relate to what you said. Can you give any more real life examples of how Fe manifests? I've had a casual interest in MBTI for a long time but only recently learned about functions and to be honest I struggle to apply what I have read to real life...
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    Confused over a straight INFJ

    hi. I need someone to help me with this, I am slowly driving myself insane over what is probably nothing, but I need someone to explain this INFJ behaviour to me. I work at a coffee shop. In March a woman I had never seen before came in. I served her, it was a very brief interaction but I...