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    Small talk and not knowing what to say

    I actually do fine with small talk, but I have a little trouble when I'm in deep conversations because I have a hard time putting my feelings or thoughts into correct words. It's very simple to me because I'm very independent and I'm use to initiating first or getting things on my own. My small...
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    "Be a little less nice."

    Haha i enjoyed reading your examples of being nice. I think I agree with what you've said. Its not like we're robots, we have feelings and we express them just like everyone else. But I think I do prefer to be nice. I think it just makes the world go round, like what they say about love. When...
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    Are you ever intimidated by very attractive people?

    I think it's sorta funny because everyone's definition of attractive is different and in many ways we are all attractive. But I think it's normal to be intimidated or nervous around someone you consider attractive. Because to see something as attractive we would believe there's something special...
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    Haha everyone's so welcoming on here, the energy's great. Thx!! I'm doing good. School is about...

    Haha everyone's so welcoming on here, the energy's great. Thx!! I'm doing good. School is about to start for me so I'm a little bummed, but ok. How about yourself?
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    CupCAKES!! Hehe :smile:

    CupCAKES!! Hehe :smile:
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    How do I remain who I am?

    I think that's true about the unspoken limitations, but that's probably true in general society. It's just a way that people act and function to work efficiently. But if you have good open minded friends then I'd highly doubt you'll ever do anything that you desire that's outrageous to them. I...
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    Taking responsibility for oneself

    I think I've always known I'm responsible for myself and life is what I make of it. I've always been very independent because my parents don't know english and never really taught me anything. They also took care of my sister better than myself so I had to deal. I think it's definitely hard to...
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    Would you kill a puppy for $1000000?

    It is unethical to kill the puppy for money because you're not gaining any goodness by doing so especially since you closed off the possibility of donating the money to charities. You are causing harm to the puppy who did nothing to you and is intrinsically valuable. You're probably doing just...
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    is God a woman?

    Wow that's a lot of pink bar. I think people depict gods as humanoids because it's comforting to know that someone watching over them is relatable and even posses human qualities. But in my opinion God/gods can look like anything, the possibilities are endless. It's so close minded to believe...
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    Hehe thank you, thank you.

    Hehe thank you, thank you.
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    Self Compassion

    Thank you, that is really good advice and hopefully I did not choose a bad friend. I never considered that she doesn't want to be around my sad energy. It is very possible, but I just thought she would be a little more considerate. I will have to see what she says and let go of my resentment...
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    How do I remain who I am?

    I don't really understand what you mean by "living outside your friends' expectations." They're your friends because they only expect so much from you and that is enough to make them happy and vice versa... I would see an issue about living inside your friends' expectations... I know I...
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    [PAX] INFJ Ethics

    I disagree with some of your points as well. I'm new to this, so I'll speak for myself. I don't think I have a pack mentality at all, but I will consider and learn from my surroundings. I don't like to put others down and try to keep an open mind, but my values and ethics and right and wrong...
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    Do you often feel older than your peers?

    I think experiences can mature us. I'm not really sure how to answer, maybe I don't really know what maturity actually is. Is it just age, or is there more to it?.. I think we have to accept and embrace our experiences to learn, grow, and mature. It's like learning from your mistakes, but some...
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    Do you often feel older than your peers?

    I think age and the way we act cannot be correlated because it's different for everyone. But I do often feel more mature than a lot of my peers and even ppl older than me. I think it has to do with the way we reflect and learn; very internal. We often feel the need to understand things and so I...