Recent content by Io-

I say follow your dreams. Doesn't mean though you can't be practical about it. Day jobs have a lot to be said for. And some one who is good at computers, IT is always a good place for money. Think that there are more creative options for you than just video games though. Online, Film, TV...

"should"..... Narrow's the field immediately. Maybe "Can art be beautiful" Who wants to be dictated to.

I think the whole concept of marriage is worth reveiwing. People live longer. They tailor their families through contraception. Life has changed drastically from my Grandparents days. Women with careers, etc. I thought the idea of tailoring your marriage would be quite a good one. I still think...

Cool. Thanks. Appreciate the help. Will read through it. :-)

Been thinking more about it, think I need to add this - [FONT=Times][FONT=Georgia]I got married really young. I think that there is some growing up that is easier and more effective to be done by yourself first. If your looking to somebody else to ease the way, I think you will...

I think you should look at what you anticipate marriage doing for you in the first place. What is it that you are waiting for? What do you think marriage is going to do? Is it some grand transformation? If you are both ready to decide to get married it should just be a celebration of what's...

Thanks for that. Well rounded sounds good. I had read on someones blog recently that they thought it was a sign of someone who likes to sit on the fence. I think that its the opposite -more a case of not wanting to generalize. That there are so many variations, so many different facets to life...

I have done numerous personality tests and am now completely convinced that I am an INFJ, but the one thing that constantly comes up is that I sit smack in the middle (49%, 51% etc) of 3 of the 4 catagories. It was because of the closeness that I ended up doing so many tests but it constantly...

Compassion, fear, and the need for control

I know that I'm most interested in process, the place in between. I love anything that's learning, or creative. I get the biggest kick out of the part where your going .... oooh, that's interesting!, finding the answers or "mastering" things sorta just closes all that down.. It's a bit iike...

Ditto. I've felt like this all my life. I'm just a point in my life where I'm doing a whole lot of questioning - what do I want, what's really important, and how am I going to achieve what I want without trying to be someone else type questions. Doing heaps of reading. At present am reading "the...

I agree, although I also think that people don't necessarily grow at the same rate, so "falling in love" is not something that only happens at the beginning of the relationship but is a cyclical thing as couples drift apart to learn new stuff, then meet again in the middle... ... then it's a...