Recent content by INTP02138

Hmmm interesting. It's worth a try. This weekend would be a challenge considering there's a hurricane--but then again it may she that I'm for real, to travel through a storm to see her.

Well, I tried, but she keeping the wall up between us. I did send roses, apologizing. But my neglect has caused her too much pain. It kinda upset me because there are couples that go through things much worse than us--they may break up but they get back together. The problems we have are...

Sure I do. But do you think I should wait awhile until she's in a better mood or is it best to do something now to get her in a better mood. My gut is telling me to give her space because she probably doesn't want to hear from me; but my heart is telling me to do something to let her know how I...

Well, I'm out at an social event...and haven't socialized at all...this is going to tougher than I thought.

It's funny that you should mention distraction. The first DVD we watched together was Love Guru with Mike Myers. The philosophy of healing was D. R. A. M. A. which stood for distraction, regression, adjustment, maturity and action. LOL, I really do need a good distraction; I'm going out tonight...

Yeap, that's me a lot of the time "clueless" If I'm in school, I just assumed she understand if I didn't call much. I have to stop thinking that she thinks like me. The "logic" of emotion is a big lesson I'm trying to grasp.

And that's where I screw up the most...ugggggh...if I have an issue with some one or something, she goes all out emotionally supportive in my favor. But when she has an issue with some one or something, I go into Mr. Spock mode. Then I feel guilty later because I know I'm being a sucky...

*Sigh* I must have gain 10 pounds since we broke up last week LOL--trying to fill a void with Chinese food, Domino's PIzza, soft drinks, and junk food is just not working for me---another reason I need to get over her.

You're right. I've tried explaining it over the phone when we get into our arguments-- but perhaps nothing is really heard when two people argue ( we tend to just listen to or concern ourselves with the thing that bothers us most, and not what bothers the other person). Perhaps, I'll send her...

She is worth waiting for. I mean she drives me nuts with her constant need for validation and not being able to make up her mind about things. But I still think she's awesome--there's nothing so bad that I can't accept about her. It's just hard when she doesn't trust what I say. I tell her she...

So after a year and a half, I (and INTP) just got dumped by my INFJ girlfriend. This was her first relationship; while I've been through several. However it's difficult because I really thought we would be in it for the long run. Unfortunately, we were in a long distance relationship--but only 4...