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Thanks always thinking. If you hadnt gave me advice I think this would have drawn itself out and took much longer to deal with. I got to the same conclusion. Thank god she showed her true colors(and also thank god you gave me advice), I guess she isnt a totally horrible and evil person after...

Toxic shame is what makes all relationships unhealthy, this is from advanced level psychology books and scholarly articles. You may not be able to relate, but it is only because your developmental level is low(no offense), about 3-10 years old. Although you behave like an adult, your emotional...

You have unhealthy shame. It is that simple. The unhealthy shame makes you feel not ok. You feel like you are not ok. When someone treats you like you are ok, you think "This person is stupid" When someone treats you badly you think "This person is smart and powerful because they see that I am...

Ok, so she contacted me about an hour ago. We were talking, and I took your advice, I told her I think she is special, she asks me what I like about her ....... I tell her...... what she says "I met this amazing guy, he's an architect. He is also very talented all around. Reminds me a lot of...

Thank you so much, I really liked your advice and I think it is very constructive and helpful. I tried to be careful when telling her I didnt like her behaviour. I told her I liked spending time with her, but its 2% of the time that when she loses it that I cant stand it. I am totally willing...

Yeah, she told me she was joking and even apologized. Then, the last time we talked, she said that Im just different culturally and that she thought it would be funny, but apparently not everyone does. What I want to do is make sure she doesnt lose it, she talks about having kids and wanting a...

Thank you Skarekrow, for reading all of that I guess my intjness causes me to scan through 2000 messages to really figure out whats wrong here. I like her because she doesnt have any of that fakeness other people have. She totally just comes out and says she likes me, and I love that, no girl...

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Thank you Skarekrow, for reading all of that =) I guess my intjness causes me to scan through 2000 messages to really figure out whats wrong here. I like her because she doesnt have any of that fakeness other people have. She totally just comes out and says she likes me, and I love that, no...

Thank you Skarekrow, for reading all of that =) I guess my intjness causes me to scan through 2000 messages to really figure out whats wrong here. I like her because she doesnt have any of that fakeness other people have. She totally just comes out and says she likes me, and I love that, no...

Thank you Skarekrow, for reading all of that =) I guess my intjness causes me to scan through 2000 messages to really figure out whats wrong here. I like her because she doesnt have any of that fakeness other people have. She totally just comes out and says she likes me, and I love that, no...

Basically I am coming here for help with my relationship with her. I think it is obvious she likes me. I dont want to do anything to get her to stop liking me. We are both in our early 20's, me 25, her I think 22/3. We are both close to the 50% mark on all our mbti letters, as in we may be...