Recent content by infpwonderer

It's difficult to see that, but I'll definitely try my best. While he might not be able to bear hurting her, he's consequently hurting me. Although it's not okay for me to think that way, because it isn't like we're together or he owes me that in any way. Which just makes it feel more...

The bit about leaving relationships makes complete sense, even an unhealthy one. And I do understand that. But it's difficult for me to understand how easy it seems to stick with something unhealthy and to lose what we could possibly have. Before I told him about my feelings for him, he told me...

Normally, I would have bailed a lot sooner. But I've never met anyone like him and I've never had a connection like ours. Which is something that I don't want to lose. But I don't know if I have a choice anymore. I've made myself clear and he's made himself clear with his silence, I suppose...

Wisest words ever spoken.

This hurts to hear, but is needed. Thank you. I've spent this time feeling like I'm asking too much of him. But maybe I'm not standing up for what I need enough. You've given me much more to think about

I really appreciate your response, CindyLou. Your insight makes so much sense. Initially after it happened he told me that he didn't know what he was feeling. I believe that I need the conversation, but that's just because of my feelings for him. I don't want him to feel forced to talk about...

INFP, here. I'm crazy about this INFJ in my life. We've spent over the last nine months getting closer and closer. We have the most intimate conversations I've ever had with another. A few months ago, I shared with him that I was developing strong feelings for him and was trying to navigate...