and if it helps... she's talk to her besties about me ... noting "she wishes there were more of me for her girlfriends..." .. quite the compliment... but what to do with it? New York is full of vibrant, outgoing, loud and artsy xNFx ... i am shocked that an INFJ like myself can stand out!
I hear ya.... I've toned down my naturally romantic switch.... and have already relegated in my mind that it would have to move slow.... I think i was just caught off guard by all that she seemed to be sharing with me... to have it all yanked back... and like a true infj... i was looking (more...
ah.... relaxing .... aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhoooooooooooooommmmmmmmmmmmm .... (with my eyes closed) ... but are our enfp prone to retreating... then coming back? Will i have to just get used to it?
Not sure if "clingy" is the word i would have used... but i see your point.... and being totally enthralled isn't a bad thing... i like being head over heels... as most people do not impress me....she is amazing and deserves the attention.... she has her flaws, but I've never had someone move me...
I've NEVER does this before under any circumstance, under any context, and just the fact that i am reaching out in this manner should underline the fact that this is a situation I cannot resolve myself, but am looking to the crowd-sourcing knowledge of this group for some help....
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