Recent content by idealisticdreamer

6 months. I don't think so.

Thanks. I don't want to contact him. I just want to be over him already!

I don't mind reality checks, I don't take offense to much. I know in reality I'll get over it in time. I'm actually beating myself up for not being over it yet. I feel like I gave away a huge part of my soul. :) Would you be OK with me PMing you?

Thanks and thanks for the book recommendations, school's out in a week and those sound interesting.

I'm on my phone so won't write too much, but HE expressed those things. He said I'm 99% what he's looking for in a wife, that's why I lean more towards the kid thing. Even when breaking up he says he thinks he feels crazy because we have great chemistry, I'm beautiful, funny, smart, kind...

I agree, but I don't think he wants to give me the reason(s)...which does suck. I think I've just accepted most people are not like me--I have always told people I'm breaking up with exactly why I'm breaking up with them, even if I know it will hurt. But at least there is no guessing game...

No what? LOL

No love, no sex. I barely even have any sexual interest if I'm not in love. I am a demisexual.

INFJs can usually sense when someone has a romantic interest in them, although I'm not really sure how that works online. Do you guys live nearby or would that be a long distance thing?

I am not a very jealous person. However, if there's a reasonable suspicion to believe that something is "off," that would make me jealous.

All the thoughts in my head are driving me nuts so I just need to get it out there to people who may understand. I just recently got out of a relationship with a great guy (INTJ). We both felt like it was miraculous how we got together, instantly clicked, had great chemistry, etc. and then he...

My ex was very into me in the beginning, 3 months later he started distancing himself quite a bit. He explained it away with work, family obligations, etc., but I get the feeling he was running from his feelings. I think maybe the strong feelings he had for me made him feel "out of control." I...

I would start with a price I'm comfortable with then buy the safest and coolest car in that range.

I changed from Pre-Med to Public Health. I've thought on several different careers. I feel this field will give me the most flexibility, opportunities to live abroad, etc. I will more than likely do other things on the side, counseling will probably be one of them :)

My INTJ ex came very close. We were amazing together.