Recent content by hylas89

I do suppose INTJ's think so much alike! You read my mind. I am going to try my best to follow your advice and back off and give her some space. The last time I saw her (i.e. after walking her home from the party Saturday night), I told her she should contact me should she want to hang out, so I...

The people on the INTJ forums are a special breed of INTJ, or at least a large majority of them are: They take pride in accentuating their qualities, even to the point of convincing themselves they have no E, S, F, or P qualities. Life is often a pissing contest for many, and on the INTJ boards...

As the INTJ "mastermind" type, perhaps I have an exaggerated tendency to strategize and optimize my goals. Since I like her so much, and I wanted a relationship from her, that became my goal, and I figured the best way to achieve that goal was to do some behavior that would optimize it: intimate...

I think you bring up some great points, though I think it's unfair to presume I don't have her interests in mind. If I do indeed believe she wants to be just friends, I will respect that and be her friend and accept her boundaries. How will I know if she reciprocates? I am just baffled that I...

Is there any way to change her mind, if this is the case?

Don't know what to say other than good luck! I'm also a male INTJ who's going crazy over a female INFJ. Good luck to the both of us! Ha! =D

[[ long-time lurker finally posting after making an account; thanks for taking the time to read what probably means the world to me, but may be banal to you! ]] What an enigma. Perhaps that's part of the reason I like her so much. I'm a 20-year-old INTJ and there's this 21-year-old INFJ for...