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    INFJ and number of sex partners.

    Wow. This is all really heavy. My husband is older and therefore much more ummm... well, he was a boomer. They were freeeeee. It is a reprieve from my contemporary X geners who are more cautious. I'm exceptionally picky, but have had a lot of options, so probably have had more than anyone here...
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    Describe your Evil side

    When no one sees it coming from a blonde chick who was frequently underestimated by intellectuals. Then again, perhaps this isn't evil, but necessary. :m105:
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    Hope you are well. Getting ready for school or are you done? How is your summer?Mine is so...

    Hope you are well. Getting ready for school or are you done? How is your summer?Mine is so incredibly busy it is making me spin. Kids are keeping me on my toes and are loving life.
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    Anima and Animus

    This is very good. Now I'm going to go lead myself back to work and independently make some more decisions ! ! ! :m131:
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    Validity of Astrology *split from INFJs and western astrology*

    This one line seems to have intrinsic value on answering a fundamental question that could contain seeds of a greater truth that is being lost here. What if the world can contain both the truth of A and not A? Aren't we already seeing this in science? Matter and antimatter? Aren't we already...
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    Validity of Astrology *split from INFJs and western astrology*

    (K, although I'll admit, it can be seriously accurate, in my subjective view.) My friend does a lot of Tarrot, yes, unrelated, but she seems more confused than just about anyone. I give her advice and she pauses to think how it can be interwoven into her tarrot readings. Can't help but think...
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    These ...

    This is beautiful. In simple jest, I have to admit that it sounds like a Persephone remix ! :)
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    Validity of Astrology *split from INFJs and western astrology*

    INFJ's shouldn't need astrology if we are heavy in N to begin with... DIVING.
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    Validity of Astrology *split from INFJs and western astrology*

    Interesting thread. KoS, great post. So, here is some pretty esoteric stuff for my sleepy eyes, but relevant and related information by C.S. Lofting : This article gets in to how the brain processes information through binary sequences, draws assumptions and dichotomies based upon previous...
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    INFJ and bullying

    And I am sorry to hear that....However, on your last point, it may simply not be entirely true, just your opinion and experience to date. I'm sure you have lots and lots of examples of how this is so. I believe that. Look, I have seen a lot of people who have been good to others only to have...
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    What Is Love?

    True to some, not all. Sometimes, communities aren't healthy for one individual, whereas others may be perfectly content within that same framework or structure. INFJ's can be a good example of the former. Loving environments, imo, help the INFJ thrive. I personally see both the necessity of...
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    What Is Love?

    THAT is a great concept. So, what you are saying is that there are the evolutionary benefits of love because (beyond survival of the species) it may be to the benefit of mankind to love. (It also can be good for your health, as long as it is healthy love.) And under certain conditions, the...
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    What Is Love?

    (...or alchemy !) K, just read it. The link was interesting on what happens when someone is in love. I don't think the same reactions occur out of other types of love, do you? (I love spaggetti carbonara or your purse or that scent or that book I just finished.) Take symbols of love ... the...
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    What Is Love?

    Yes, well, only to the extent that I have studied it, and build it into design without my client necessarily being in full knowing that that is part of the service. It is not my highest consideration, but your point on creating energy is to me something that I take very seriously. What I don't...
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    What Is Love?

    I think, quite honestly, that the answer is simple and right in front of us. That is what is so amusing, yet tragic about it. Love simply exists. It is everywhere. Even where there is pain, there is opportunity for it. Where there is confusion, there is still the possibility of it. It is a...