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    Vertigo Comics

    I was given the script for an issue of "Y" once in a class and told to draw thumbnail and rough page setups. It was really interesting to see what my classmates and I came up with versus what happened in the actual comic. In some areas, the things we students came up with were more interesting...
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    Cuddling: like or dislike.

    Yes, I like cuddling in the context of an intimate relationship. I tend to avoid excessive PDAs because I know what it's like to watch people in a relationship love all over each other. It tends to make anyone you're with who is single feel like crap. So, I limit it to holding hands, an arm...
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    How was your 4th?

    Fantastic! :) My boyfriend and I made dinner together (something we've been wanting to do for a while but have never had the kitchen to ourselves to do it)...was BBQ pork, grilled veggies, and some kale followed by watermelon. Then we kayaked out into the middle of a creek and sat on a...
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    How does an INFJ show that s/he likes you?

    (Personally) They don't show any sign of liking you beyond liking you as a person and enjoying your company, but then turn right around and send long, long e-mails about how nervous they feel around you because they're attracted to you and wanted to kiss you the whole time they were with you...
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    Do you hug much?

    Depends on the person. I hug my boyfriend a lot. Hmm, otherwise, it has to be initiated from someone else. I like hugging my family, but I won't be likely to initiate. I really hate getting hugged by people I don't know well.
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    This is why you're fat.

    There's like...maybe...2 or 3 things on that site that I would try, because they do not look disgusting. Whoever cooks this stuff, has no idea about the concept of presentation of a meal. Almost all of it looks like someone threw up meat and cheese onto a plate and smushed it back together into...
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    How do you imagine People on this Forum?

    I do that, and assume each person is/looks like their avatar or what their avatar seems to symbolise until more data has been gathered. Maybe I'm not terribly imaginative or something when it comes to people. But you could totally be Toph in my head. :D And RetardedMonkey always appears as...
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    First Panic Attack

    Yes, I've had them before. I still get a panic attack when I'm late for something I deem important and my reason for being late was out of my control or an accident (sounds stupid, right?). Like missing a bus because it simply did not show up when it was scheduled to. Or accidentally backing...
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    Are INFJ's really that rare?

    I think rarity shouldn't matter and that nugget of information should be removed from all type descriptions. Statistical occurences, whether they are true or not, do nothing significantly productive in the type descriptions and understanding oneself based on the way one's mind works. It might...
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    Lighting Conditions?

    Yes. Why do you think photography has the ability to be so powerful? It is essentially composing light. :) I love the light right before a big storm. That weird greenish-purple hue the world gets. Or the deep blue-silver light of a full moon (or a nightlight). The light produced by fire...
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    Was this INFJ not into me?

    I totally did that on my first date with my current boyfriend. I was really very nervous. He reacted the same way you did We went to a gallery hop and the whole evening was spent around a number of people and I was very quick on the goodbye. The next date we went on was a walk through a...
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    Connection With Animals...

    I've usually been able to get a long with animals better than people. My boyfriend's cats are very afraid of strangers, but the first time I went over to his house, they didn't hide. And last month the shiest one of all came up close to me to see if she wanted some chicken I was eating. He...
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    How did you find out?

    6th grade. Via a long, long written test administered by our gifted teacher. I don't remember what everyone else was. She was big on having us figure out how our minds worked on an individual level. Got into researching the topic again shortly after getting into college. Now, I kind of care...
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    ...but, how do you *help* an INFJ???

    If you think something is wrong, ask directly. That's the most efficient way. Actually, the INFJ should also learn to be upfront about what they need or if something is bothering them. Assuming someone will pick up on our troubles is a very, very poor habit to develop in relationships. No one...
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    Do you constantly think about what will happen to you when you die?

    Mmm. Existential angst. I am quite familiar with it. I'm a bit of a Existential Nihilist in that I think there is no point at all to existence. It just is, and for a lot of people that isn't good enough. But it's good enough for me. You are correct. We only have so much time to...