Recent content by Hard

I either don't notice it, or I work to sidestep it. The only time it really gets to me is if it's done for malicious intent. In that case I pull out the big guns.

Well, I am not an INFJ, but I definitely try and intimidate folks to get to something if I feel it's nesscarry. Though, not in the way you'd think about it. I use undercurrents to do it. I have the ability to a manipulative SOB, and I use it. It's very much for an "if the ends justify the means...

Electronic music is my bread and butter, and makes up about 80% of what I listen to. I could post a gazillion things here but I'll start with something I just discovered tonight. The thing that I look for most in music is interesting sound, and interesting patterns. This woman NAILED it with...

If I am really hopeful towards someone, then yeah it will hurt. But ultimately, it is not something worth getting upset over. If they aren't interested, then they aren't and that is that. I have told plenty of people the same thing. You can't make yourself interested in someone, and you...

Time. It's really the only thing that works.

INFP's I have had bad responses to a wide array of types, but out of all of them, I think INFP's can get under my skin more than any other. INTP's would be a close second, but I'll focus on INFP's. One of my closest friends is an INFP so I can actually get along with them really well. However...

No, not exactly. If they end up doing a better job at it than I did (and I hadn't been planning/expecting them to take my place), then yeah it will feel like I failed at it. If they take over and are equal or worse than I was, then I won't care really.

Yup. Ghoulia, you actually have quite a judgemental pattern towards others that shows up in nearly all of your posts. It's good to see you're working on yourself. Keep doing so. My father is an ESTJ, and he never "got" me for years and years. For a long time I used that as a basis that "all...

Depends. If I find the person attractive too, then yes I enjoy it. It's validating. If I am turned off by the person though, I can't stand it. If I am neutral towards them I don't care either way.

You have some severely stereotypical ideas of what s types are. I'd be willing you bet money that you're friends with at least one S type and don't realize it. The way you are describing it, it's saying that S types are incapable of having or conveying depth, which is completely incorrect...

Can I ask why? What (based on your knowledge) about these groupings put you off and make you feel that they can't be a match with you?

I assume you're in your 20's? It won't.

Well, I don't know if I am INFJ or not, I could actually be ISTJ like you. I caution you to not put INFJ's on a pedastal. There has only been one major study on the commonness of personality types, and has not been replicated. As such, we really can't say if INFJ's are all that rare or not...

There's a variety of activites I enjoy, and I can draw energy from a lot of places. Some more than others. (note I don't know my type). I think one of my favorite though, and is ultimately the most fulfilling (and gives me a lot of direction and purpose), is being in some sort of leadership...

Having a feeling of fulfillment.