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    [INFJ] INFJ (M) and ENFP (F) had a fight after a 6th date and she wants to be friends now?

    An old man said..."Only kiss the girls that are leaning toward you." I sense that since you said you could never go back to be friends that you are attached to her more than she you. I've learned many times over that attachment NOT love that brings pain. Don't be attached but just love...
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    What is your relationship with your Self? To God?

    For those of you that are interested... God is love. Love is God. And the way back to God is also through love. Very simple. All the true saints have said this since the beginning of time. This past century has been one of remarkable developments on many levels. The ones most revelent to...
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    Do you feel like a psychopath/sociopath sometimes?

    I cry wayyyy too much to be a sociopath!
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    "weird" INFJ

    Well you're looking at it in reverse I think...although your right about weird, no worries everyone is. BUT shunning now that is a GREAT thing and it shouldn't bother you at all. It's a gift really. The people that shun you don't know you and then judge, duh! I like it when people shun me, it...
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    Male Behavior Regarding Women.

    I agree it's a people thing, not gender specific. But to understand...now that takes a personal mission often a lifetime.
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    Male Behavior Regarding Women.

    How can one tell? Women say they want a good man, but when one comes along they usually can't see it. Maybe an INFJ could but I never met one of those in my life ever. I try to be good but that is always in the eyes of the beholder, besides I screw up more often than not. See the beauty in one's...
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    [INFJ] You know you're an INFJ when...

    You know when you're an INFJ when you just meet a woman you fell in love with 40 years ago and realize you still do in every way.
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    Feeling really uncomfortable with acting?

    I recently saw a picture of emancipated POW's from a Japanese internment camp. These guys were truly skeletons of men. Half of them were smiling I assume because their picture was being taken!!! I can't imagine at that point they were happy campers. Maybe it was because they survived. Even then...
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    Can trust really be earned FULLY back?

    Not at all. As long as you don't get crushed if they fail. Everyone gets 100% when I first meet them, it usually goes downhill from there but not always. Those are the times it counts.
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    [INFJ] You know you're an INFJ when...

    ...when someone you've known all of your life (sister) tells you; "So that's why you're so strange", right after the moment you tell them you're an INFJ. You laugh cause you think they're kidding then they say "I always knew you were different than the rest of us." (family) It hits you they...
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    [INFJ] You know you're an INFJ when...

    Ha Ha I did that and got away with it all day, until I had a dentist appointment then my feet were right up there! Karma ya just can't get away from it ! LOL
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    Can trust really be earned FULLY back?

    Never! Not ever 100% I've never broken a trust & expect any of my friends to do the same. If a mistake was made better to owe up to it before it gets found out. At least then trust isn't broken and forgiveness can be next.
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    God said "Let there be light" then everyone got blinded.

    God said "Let there be light" then everyone got blinded.
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    The Eyes of the INFJ

    I usually look into someones eyes to make "contact" A lot can be "sensed" with only doing that. Please don't ask me how!