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    Hehe, well if I'm Leon, you're going to be Claire--or am I just being a guy and taking that as a...

    Hehe, well if I'm Leon, you're going to be Claire--or am I just being a guy and taking that as a Resident Evil reference? ;)
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    Heh, yeah he sounds like a total tool, I just feel like he should figure that out for himself...

    Heh, yeah he sounds like a total tool, I just feel like he should figure that out for himself. Nice to meet ya!
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    Do all children begin life in extroversion?

    I've never been totally un-extroverted, but even as a kid I've always leaned towards introversion. I was an only child and played by myself A LOT, and still had to get to know other kids before I could show my true colors to them. Once I got into school I had a lot more play dates, but I...
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    Do you believe in ghosts?

    I don't believe in "ghosts" per se, but I definitely think there are weird aspects of reality that can occur and be witnessed for which people have no words or established mental constructs. When somebody's mind gets tickled in a place it's never been tickled before, they will reach for...
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    INFJs and feelings of being alone, different, disconnected or lost

    I've wondered if this was an INFJ trait, and it's re-assuring to know it seems to be a common thread amongst us. I think a lot of my "feeling lost" has to do with envisioning a different, perhaps future (but sometimes past) version of myself that I should be now, or at least very soon. It's...
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    How Often Do You Drink Alcohol?

    I drink socially and am not afraid of a big night of drinking, but I really only like it as a social lubricant and only drink 1-4 times per week. A cold beer on a hot day or a glass of red wine with dinner certainly are pleasures though. I enjoy cannabis more and more frequently than the booze.
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    What's the Most Romantic Thing Anyone Has Ever Said to You?

    You really are quite the humanitarian aren't you? ;)
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    [PAX] What's the worst way to break up with someone?

    "What's the worst way to break up with someone?" To vanish without a trace or note. Hope this never happens to me or any of you!
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    Have you ever really questioned your own sexuality?

    I've never been attracted to a man, but I've had a few nights in the throws of depression where I've wondered if my attraction towards women was a delusion. I've never had a real romantic relationship before--a life achievement I've for sure "put on the pedestal"--and have used this fact to...
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    How do INFJs communicate?

    Ahh don't get too down on yourself, we/I like all people as long as they're honest pretty much. Perhaps it's the INTJ's who should be worrying about getting your INTP's attentions? Makes just as much sense as any other way in a certain light, no?
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    How do INFJs communicate?

    ^^Even better!
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    Nickel Creek were awesome, huh? Too bad they broke up. I got to see them once and they're...

    Nickel Creek were awesome, huh? Too bad they broke up. I got to see them once and they're amazing songwriters and musicians. Bluegrass for rockers :). I'm going to have to check out Yiruma and Christ Tomlin--what kind of style do they play?
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    You'd make a good zombie if you like brains that much (ba-da--ching!), but if you appreciate...

    You'd make a good zombie if you like brains that much (ba-da--ching!), but if you appreciate music as you seem to do I guess you can't be ;) Thanks for the tip too. Who's blown your mind over the years, musically?
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    The Mysterious INFJ

    In fact--if I'm reeeeally honest with myself--I remember at a very early age being able to tell when someone was being genuine or if they had some sort of hidden agenda, and I always felt uncomfortable around people that behave like a salesman. I think I made a small conscious effort long ago...