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    Fear of an INFJ

    +1 All my other fears stem from this.
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    Are you really isolated? How do you cope?

    Isolation is hard. When I'm feeling really alone, I try to use it as an opportunity to work on myself. Or at least identify things about myself that I'm unhappy with and would like to improve. I also journal--and even though it's frustrating that a journal can't talk back or give hugs, it's...
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    Biggest Source of Frustration as an INFJ

    This is me. The whole avoidance tactics thing always seems like an excellent solution... but it never actually is. Whenever I withdraw, the problems that I'm trying to escape are always still waiting for me. It just sometimes takes 2-3 months to muster up the strength and courage to actually...
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    INFJ's and unsolicited advice

    I think i used to give advice a lot more often than i do now. Once upon a time i thought i knew everything, but lately i generally need more advice than I'm willing to give. Occasionally i feel like i know a little more about something than the person I'm taking to... So i butt in. I generally...
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    Gray-Wheelwright Test

    INFP?! E/I score S/N score T/F score J/P score E = 1 S = 8 T = 3 J = 9 I = 9 N = 12 F = 17 P = 11
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    Romantic rituals or routines

    not really at all for me either. it's too much pressure to make anniversaries such a big deal.
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    5'2", not allowed to serve in the U.S. armed forces

    I'm just curious where you heard about the height requirement... because I've looked at a few different sites, and I can't find anything that says you have to be taller than 5'2"
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    what should your italian name be?

    Your Italian Name Is: Fiorenza Marino Ciao! :m182: <<(the most italian looking monkey)
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    Finish this statement: "I feel my best when I . . ."

    I feel my best when I can laugh freely
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    Your private vs. public vs. social selves?

    I do this too. Sometimes if I'm talking to a person who has an accent, I'll even talk with a little bit of that accent because I guess subconsciously I think they'll understand me better. And I also feel like I'm never really "myself" when I interact with people. Even when I'm interacting...
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    How would you react if . . .

    Throw and INFJ party--that would actually be x number of pairs of people having private conversations + the random E's trying to "liven things up" HWYRI you won the lottery, but after taxes you only got 5% of the winnings?
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    How Brainwashed Are You?!

    hilarious. "don't all these angles make me seem dynamic?" Oh, and happy meal anyone?
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    INFJ and Eye Contact While Thinking

    I do this unintentionally on the train, and then I fell creepy cause I'm stuck sitting across from the person for a while. ^This^ is smarter though. Easy escape route. But when talking to someone, I usually have to remind myself to make eye contact at all--which sometimes makes people think...
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    Next word game!

    hat rack
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    The value of memories

    I understand that our memories change as we change, but as you wisely say, memories comfort us in times of change and especially in times of loss. My memories are a part of me, just like I am a part of my memories, and I know I wouldn't be the same person today if I couldn't remember the people...