Recent content by Erlian

Thanks. Yeey I'm special :D

Haai haai. I've been busy. I'm actually still busy, but felt like checking here again once in a while :) How's life?

It's annoying when people ask you specifically for advice and then don't do anything with it. Or if they just keep on ranting about the same thing forever. But that never really happened and if someone would I'd give them honest feedback. So far it's always been flattering for me. The other...

Very true and that's why I think jimtaylor would be an awesome dad. For me it changed at one point in my life. At first when you're young you just assume you'll have children later too, because your parents did and a lot of other people too (like the parents of your friends). Only later you...

Does NGSB count too? It's not because I'm looking for the perfect one. I'm (rather was) too eager to just find a girlfriend, so I could experience what it is like. My eagerness made me go too easy and too fast I guess, in the few times that I tried. I just started dating maybe 2 years ago. I'm...

That just means that the guys you have been with were not the right guy. So even when you eventually meet the right guy, you might not be sure it's someone who will commit and stay with you. Therefore I think it is better if you just *try*. It is oke if you are physical with a guy who is not the...

Do you know why? Or could you find potential reasons why you would fear it?

About not wanting to touch. Are you scared? Do you actually fear touch? Are you afraid that someone will try to hug you? Or are you indifferent? Do you don't really care about touching? Do you dislike it if someone touches you, but you don't mind it that much?

I think it's a solid theory and sometimes recommend someone to read about to improve their relationship. The only problem it has is what it shares with all classifications. You can't put one unique person with one love language. Everyone has different preferences and they can change (although I...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=73FktIOpsJ0 Emily Blunt is really awesome. She's witty, intelligent, a bit stubborn and laughing a lot. Luckily her husband is awesome too. Together they did some prank battle with Jimmy Kimmel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fukx0OR1ao4

In a house.

Wanting a girlfriend too much. The most important criteria I looked for was whether she was interested in me. And when she remotely was, I'd fall for her. That didn't really work. I realised that I wanted a girlfriend too much all the time. I was aware. I just didn't know how to stop it, because...

In your first paragraph you said we shouldn't try to learn ourselves to let go, because that implies loss. It was clear that you were going to answer it later on and while reading and before I could get to your answer I found a different one and planned to thank you for asking that question. So...

I can't speak for them, because I don't skype and I rarely like pictures of others on facebook, but I'd say they see liking as a way to pay compliments and thus get attention. When you're skyping with them, they don't like your posts or pictures because they have your attention already and they...

I'd like to emphasise this point: Don't play games, don't do the fake avoidance and distance if you don't really mean it. Do it for real. Mean it. Take distance. Try to forget him. Move on.