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Recent content by Elle29

  1. Elle29

    Direct or Indirect communication styles for INFJs?

    Direct communication style is easy to spot. They directly tell you what they want you to do, e.g. "Wash the cup", "Throw the rubbish away", "Put it over there". The indirect/informative style kinda goes in a roundabout way, e.g. "The music is a little loud", "The light is green", "I think the...
  2. Elle29

    Aha!

    I think there's a lot of misunderstanding about this mysterious Aha moment which makes it sound almost psychic. To me these "Aha" moments simply come from a period of mulling over something (Ni can work unconsciously) and suddenly, one day, I reach a conclusion. It isn't anything mystical but it...
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    [INFJ] Do INFJs hold often hold grudges when hurt badly or are they forgiving?

    It depends what the person did. I'm usually forgiving but if that person has hurt me greatly, I'll not associate with him/her again. I supposed that's also "holding grudge"? But I'll not take revenge. That's not me.