Recent content by Eeyore

I picked acts of kindness, followed by words of affirmation and quality time, then physical touch, then gifts.

That's really interesting, Hugh. Thanks for letting me in on the world of ENTPs. I did not quite understand before so I really appreciate your sharing and your honesty. I am beginning to understand a bit more now. It's intriguing how you find the introverted intuition and extroverted feeling...

If that was done in a cute, light-hearted way accompanied by some flowers and sincerity, it just might work.

I guess the issue is how to show the INFx person you are interested without scaring them away? I have a hard time identifying ENTx. I can only speculate, drawing from my own understanding, that INFJs do not usually open themselves up to others freely unless the other person does too. I am...

That could work too.

It depends on the situation.... Possibilities: Brief eye contact + small uninvasive talk/smile= usually friendly Extended eye contact +/- invasive talk/smile +/- stalking = creepy Eye contact, then looking away, then eye contact = shy or shady Do not know you (i.e. strangers) + no eye...

The ONLY way is to ASK HER OUT. If you don't try, you will never know. I know it's hard. If the girl is shy, she may not even let you know that she likes you until you give her assurance of your feelings. Just tell yourself that even if the girl does not like you back the same way, you still...

Happy Birthday!

Ok if I am well prepared for the topic. Not good if impromptu.

Satya, thanks for pointing that out. I re-read the initial post. If we are talking about physical attributes, I like myself the way I am. If I were a guy, I probably would find me (girl) interesting. But then, for me attraction is more to do with how the person is, not how the person looks...

Forgotten Rose, don't discount yourself like that though. Everyone needs to feel good about themselves but just not over-narcissistic, not to be at each extreme. Everyone has good qualities. You must too!

Lately, I have been under a lot of stress. I have trouble controlling my emotions. The other day, I got quite upset in a meeting over some things people said to me. Basically I was unhappy with certain people at the meeting for their disrespect, their know-it-all but have done nothing...

No. Too much alike= friends only. It will be very odd and extremely boring to be attracted to someone that's exactly like myself. There may be some common interests but there has to be differences... Otherwise, it will be perversely narcissistic.

Hmmmm, you said you really like this girl. Is it that you want to go beyond the friendship but the girl just wants to be friends and so she is kind of avoiding you? Regardless of what it is, the best way for you is to tell her earnestly everything that you have told us here. If she is not...

I can see honor with some kind of self sacrifice for the sake of others. But I don't see how there can be honor by killing somebody else against their will. It's the most selfish thing a person can do.