Recent content by Desmond | INFJ Forum

Recent content by Desmond

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    Pursuing beautiful INFJ girl. WHAT TO DO!?!

    I guess we'll find out.
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    Pursuing beautiful INFJ girl. WHAT TO DO!?!

    Woah woah woah haha. invisible: Yes, I've been burned many times in the past (haven't we all), and so I tend to be much more cautious about dating these days. But I agree, I should be more confident and willing to jump, and if I get hurt, so what, learn what I can and move on. Its a much more...
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    Pursuing beautiful INFJ girl. WHAT TO DO!?!

    I can definitely be more pushy if I need to, but I don't want to pressure her. Care to explain why I should be more pushy and also what makes you think she's not an INFJ? Thanks again everyone for the help, it's much appreciated!
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    Pursuing beautiful INFJ girl. WHAT TO DO!?!

    I appreciate all of the advice so far. I reached out yesterday in text and asked if she was busy that night. She told me that her softball game was cancelled (it was a stormy day) and that she was probably going to do some homework and cleaning. I invited her over like this. Keep in mind that...
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    No longer attracted to older men at all

    Honestly I think this is very valid. Is this the case for all "age gap" relationships? Of course not. However, I do believe that generally when people go for larger age gaps (in my mind, 20 years is a significant gap, but I am only 24 so what do I know), it is because they have an initial...
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    Pursuing beautiful INFJ girl. WHAT TO DO!?!

    Hey all, I need some advice. I'll lay out the events as they've unfolded so far, and you guys can tell me what you think. Hope you guys like novels! So I'm interested in this INFJ girl. She is one of my friend's roommates. I've been curious about her for awhile, but opportunity never really...