Recent content by Daeme

Hello to you too, and thanks for the welcome! Yes, very true, my needs and their needs are very different, and thus my needs aren't being met (which interestingly makes me seem like "the needy one", even though my needs are completely normal for all humans across the globe and time, touch and...

Seriously, thank you. Thank you for understanding exactly what I meant with my venting. It seems you know what you're talking about by experiencing being with someone just like my SO and bf for 30 years. Yes, I have realized I need more kindness and compassion in my life. I never said that I...

I'm now replying to each and everyone of you; thanks for your input, BUT; please actually read my whole message, there's your answer to your question "have you actually tried to tell them what you need from them". Yes, I indeed have. You guys would now it if you had actually read through what I...

Ok. However, this isn't anymore me overanalyzing them. This is our love languages not meeting in the middle, not even saying hello to each others actually. I have kept trying and trying and trying, but they won't meet my love language. That's why I realize it's time to let them both go. This was...

I'm sorry, maybe because I'm not a native English speaker, but I don't really understand your answer.

Hi all. I'm Europian F in my 30's. I'm INFJ, tested several times. My SO is M, my best friend is F, both several times tested as INTJs. I have been with my SO for 5 years, known my bf for 10 years. To put it shortly; during the pandemic and other massive things happening in my life, I have...