Recent content by court

That put a big smile on my face! :bounce: Its so nice to be around others like myself, for once I don't feel like I am on a different planet!

I actually have no friends. Honestly, it doesn't bother me too much but it would be nice to have someone to commiserate with every now and then.

I just want to say I am sorry you are going through such a distressing time. :( It sounds like you have been through a lot and are under a lot of stress right now, I hope that things get easier for you soon.

Thank you for all the encouragement and support. I think it was just what I needed to get out of this funk and begin the process of moving on or at least distancing myself and leaving the ball in his court. Its very hard for me to do so because I do idealize relationships so much but I realize...

I often wonder who I would be without my experiences. I was bullied throughout my childhood (and still run into bullying experiences from time to time) plus my mother was/is an unmedicated bipolar, and I moved around all the time. I think my experiences made my I stronger (I'm nearly 100% I) but...

I've had people tell me I come across as the same way. I remember in high school after people made the effort to get to know me telling me they thought I was stuck up because I was so quiet. It is quite amusing to me that others assume I am cold and uncaring when it couldn't be further from the...

Thank you for the advice and kind words Helpful Elf (you certainly are helpful :) ). Its terribly frustrating to me because whenever a relationship ends I tell the man that he's making a mistake and he will see that soon enough. I have never been wrong about that. They always come back but that...

I was the dumper and the dumpee in both my marriages. My exes were intially the dumpers but then wanted me back and my role was reversed to dumper. It hurt like anything to be both. I think being the dumper was easier, my heart wasn't really broken but I felt really terrible about hurting...

I avoid people too. Like secretsmile, I like to see people on my own terms. I usually only have enough energy for one relationship (outside of my children) also. So, I devote all my time to that one person and avoid everyone else. I have no friends. I always thought that it was because I was a...

I would never break my moral code and I have a very strict moral code for myself. I do feel that I get left behind a lot and I struggle in this dog eat dog world. I hate suffering but I know I would feel more suffering if I went against my values just to get my piece of the pie. As far as...

And just to clarify when I said I was going to come back to Virginia in May I only meant for the summer so the children could have visitation with their fathers and see their cousins and grandparents. It wasn't supposed to be a permanent thing. :(

This will likely be long so I thank anyone in advance who reads all the way through it. I am 32 years old and twice divorced. Now, I know that supposedly it takes two to tango and cause the collapse of a relationship, I do beg to differ. Perhaps besides choosing partners who were not as...