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    Where do you think you'll go after you die? + Rant you can read or ignore

    I don't think we go anywhere. I think we continue on, I just don't know as what or where. I truely believe this. As I grow older I become less afraid to die as I feel it is just the next stage of life. Well maybe it isn't called life anymore but it is definitely the next stage of something. I...
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    Do INFJs have exceptional memories?

    My recall is amazing. It is the only way I made it through nursing. I do have very vivid childhood memories too. Some of my memories can be upsetting even when I tell myself that was then and it's time to move on. If my feelings were hurt that memory sticks with me. It's is like it happened...
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    [INFJ] infjs and altered states of consciousness

    Music is mine. It's almost like I can meditate. Thought this was normal though. I get so immersed and feel very lifted both physically and spiritually. Don't know what I would do without music.
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    You Know You're An INFJ When....

    When you are busy painting a room while , in your head, you are having a huge argument with a coworker the way it should have gone down and you are actually saying all the things to her the way you truly wanted to but didn't because you hate confrontation. It feels so good to get it all out even...
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    [INFJ] Misdiagnosed autism with INFJ people

    I say the sky is the limit!! You realized who you are so go for it! Don't let your past or anyone hold you back. All my life I was told I couldn't do this or I wouldn't amount to anything. I just waited until I was ready and felt strong enough to get stuff done and I was able to achieve my dream...
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    small talk?

    Yesss
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    You Know You're An INFJ When....

    This actually happened to me in a job interview I didn't get the job.
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    [INFJ] You know you're an INFJ when...

    OMG that is spot on !! I'm never lonely and sometimes I prefer my dream-life over make awake-life
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    How do you handle constructive criticism?

    I too struggle with this. I wish I could be more open to it. I'm not sure but I'm pretty sure my upbringing has a lot to do with it. I know I'm an adult now and should make adjustments because intellecually I am aware it is in my best interest to not be offended by criticism but truefully it...
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    Why don't INFJs fit into society

    Can you have an old soul and a young spirit? I think this is me if it is at all possible.
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    What is the drunk version of you like?

    Me too!!! So loud, talkative and social. My husband just sits backs and laughs as I transform into someone he no longer recognizes lol.
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    What is the drunk version of you like?

    Me too!!! So loud, talkative and social. My husband just sits backs and laughs as I transform into someone he no longer recognizes lol.
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    [INFJ] You know you're an INFJ when...

    Like everyday at work
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    How did you feel when you found out you’re an INFJ?

    It is so funny you say that. Someone recently tried to offend me by saying that people say I'm unstable.( She was pissed at me and trying to hurt my feelings). It bugged me for maybe a minute then I said to myself yup I'm unstable sometimes. So what?
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    Why don't INFJs fit into society

    INFJs say they don't fit in and means that they often feel out of place in most social settings. I work in a large unit and work well with most people and enjoy being part of the group at work. What I don't do or enjoy is the social norms like small talk and arranged group get together I also...