Recent content by choklad

I had a talk with a friend who is ENFP, and it is so true! Thank you for your input! But I think INFPs tend to more be "selfish"/"self-absorbed" than ENFPs, thus more stubborn?

Thank you. Your feeling is right! I don't know any older INFJs, so I guess I have to struggle and hope it does get better for me with age. I found it hard to follow the boundaries I set. Once I could feel myself in others' shoes, it's impossible for me to turn back, because I could also see the...

Thank you for your advice. I do have some rules, but when some things happened, I automatically act upon my feelings, even though I tried so hard to use my logic - really I could see much logic behind, but my behavior just wouldn't listen. If I act upon my logic in that case, I would be thinking...

So true as for me, not just first love, every meaningful failed relationship made me depressed for a very very long time, at least a few months. I hate this so much and I don't know how to block my Ni-Fe and help myself. Everything was just automatic. :( About the empathy-sympathy example. It...

By "tend to try to hide from their Fe tendencies", do you mean that we feel too confused to show our Fe? Does it also theorically mean that Fi-Ne types don't empathize as much as we do? How about INFPs? They also value hamorny with people but are more self-absorbed or "selfish" due to Fi being...

Thank you both for replying! Well I actually got dumped and felt he did something that hurt my feelings after the break-up, but I still thought he was special to me and I wouldn't mind maintaining our friendship. So I know clearly I don't want the relationship back. My friends said he did...

Hello everyone! I'm a new INFJ here looking forward to understanding more of myself and my type (weakness and so on)! Of course I don't want to limit indivuduals in one certain type! I've been always having this issue of over-analyzing (like a typical INTJ in this case, I'm kind of obssessed...