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    The Difficulty of Being a Straight Male INFJ... and having to hide it from society

    offtherim Don't do that to yourself. You will eventually get into something so bad that you will have problems finding the pieces afterwards. 1 out of 20 can spot you, and they will latch on to you, let you idealize them (no problemo!!) and it will feel great until you understand that you are...
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    last straw before a breakup?

    Prolonged imbalanced in the relationship, and then a oneliner is enough to make me be done. Usually that oneliner is something which is opposite of whatever is in my own value system. I usually go fish for it as well, since I know it's there and I just have to hear it to be done.
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    innate need to care for others

    If I can make one person happy by just being me, then it is enough. If I can't, then I have failed on what I think is one of the most important things while on this planet: to live in a way that makes life a little easier for as many as possible, but at least one. It's both, positive when...
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    How important is physical beauty in attraction for you?

    Physical factors are important to me. I like good self representation, such as clean clothes, good hygiene and a nice smile. I have a hard time understanding "beauty" though, as that usually comes with attachment for me. The more attached I am to someone, the more beautiful they become. Most...