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    Living together before marriage

    Even though i am usually a die hard traditionilist...On this subject,i have to say i'm going against tradition.I really believe it should be an absolute must to live with your love interest,(at least for a short amount of time)before getting married.You could end up saving yourself from serious...
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    What is intuition?

    It's so hard to explain.To me,it's that gut feeling,just like you said...that feeling that you "know" something,but don't actually understand "how" you do.A part of me wants to think it's a supernatural/paranormal thing,but,in reality,i think some peoples brains just have the ability to pick up...
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    Music that speak directly to your heart

    http://youtu.be/GVomtC72r0U
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    Giving In Easily

    I despise conflict and avoid it at all costs,but if i find myself in one...i guess it depends.I use to always be the one to give in,but as i've gotten older,i've learned to stand-up for myself a little more.Plus,as you said..i always hated that feeling,after the conflict where you're sitting...
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    Saddest songs you've ever heard.

    http://youtu.be/nKuiS3J52pw I remember my mom listening to this song when i was a little girl and me actually covering my ears so i wouldn't have to listen....it was painfully sad,especially to a kid!
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    Talking/mocking behind others' backs

    I am the same way.Of course,pretty much everyone will have someone talking about them behind their backs at some point in life.But,i do believe INFJ's tend to take things like this a lot more seriously and personally than most people.I also think it has to do with our strong internal...
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    True Colors Test

    NT - Scholar (Green) Congratulations! You are the SCHOLAR. First, the bad news. On any given bad day you're most likely to be perceived as cold, arrogant, know-it-all. At times you are closed off and independent, seemingly absentminded, and have probably been told that you've got your...
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    How do you build rapport with an INFJ?

    I definitly can relate to the "you feel like they want you to make the first move"...in a social situation with me,if you're not making the first move,be it,initializing the conversation,making plans exc,I guess we'll both be sitting there looking like idiots because i sure as hell won't be...
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    Hi!!!

    Hi!!!
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    How Do You Know You're an INFJ?

    I've taken the test over 50 times,always come up INFJ.But,to me,forget the test,if you are,you Know IT!!!! The first time i took the test,i really knew nothing about it.But once i read the charicteristics and traits,i remember going down the list and actually crying.It felt like pretty much...
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    All Scorpios, Cappys and Sagg's please stop by!

    My birthday is Oct 20.Libra.I always felt that some of the charicteristics of libra fit me,but more so not.The love of beauty,harmony,diplomatic is definitly me,but thats about it.Then i found out that i was actually born on the Libra/scorpio cusp,meaning i most likely have traits of both signs...
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    Physical expression of personality.

    Eye contact?...Hardly ever!!!! I will look someone in the eye briefly,just for effect,but never stare into their eyes while talking.I tend to want to concentrate on what i'm saying/they're saying.When really upset though,i will definitly look you in the eye,and when i do,most people can't keep...
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    Icebreakers :D

    I'm never the one to "break the ice"...if you don't say something to me first,i guess we're not talking...lol.And as far as what people have said to me...corny,thoughtless comments do nothing for me,so,if you are trying to break the ice with me,say something smart,witty,sound like you have some...
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    INFJ's and phone conversation?

    This is soooo funny! I thought i was a real oddball for this one,apparently not so..! I DESPISE talking on the phone.I mean really hate it.I don't have many friends,so thankfully i don't need to that often,but,i will literally go weeks without calling even my mother,because of this phone...