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Yes, I can totally relate to having INTJ admiration/envy! My husband is an INTJ and so are several of my close friends. I just seem to "click" with them. I especially like how they just don't give a f--- about what anyone thinks of them. Whereas we F's are more concerned with making sure people...

INTJ. I have a thing for them apparently. To me, I honestly feel that I could only be with someone who is both I and J. I am flexible on the N/S and T/P.

Words/phrases that come to mind are: Angsty Confused Highest of highs, lowest of lows Anything is possible Identity confusion Scary Lost 30s are SOOOOO much better!

I have a lot of problems with Ps and extreme Es. P's because I find them flaky and my structured, planning-oriented self can't handle it. E's are okay in moderation, but extreme E's drive me nuts because I feel like I'm just a number to them.

Do you think this is an INFJ thing or just an "intense people who spend a lot of time on the internet" thing?

I agree with what Roger said: "According to me, both depends on person's capacity to understand their friend or partner." Because I don't believe that any two people who are willing can have a "deep" relationship. There are only a handful of people I feel like I can have deep relationships with...

I completely relate to this. I've been feeling unsatisfied with my friendships lately--not so much in quantity as much as quality. I have a pretty wide circle of friends but none of them are as close as I'd like. Historically my best friendships have been really intense, so anything less feels...