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Recent content by Bladewing

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    How to give advice/counsel

    Slant, Well said. This is exactly what I have learned in my 18 years of existence. I myself HATE hearing advice unless I ask for, which is very rare I only do it when I know the person I am asking advice of has both the same knowledge/experience as me AND more. So unless someone comes to me...
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    What type is most attracted to INFJs ?

    Yes this is me exactly my girlfriend ESFJ got such a huge kick out of dragging me out of my comfort zone (and it was actually kind of fun for me too) But I still don't think she entirely realizes how big of a deal me sharing so much about myself is. I've always thought the same thing. I need...
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    What type is most attracted to INFJs ?

    Hehehe don't hate me but there was a fairly attractive INTP who approached me because she liked me and I kinda rejected her, well like stopped her before she too far ahead of herself. I found her rather dull. Her, but also most NT's, seem very easy for me to understand to the point where...
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    glue

    I often have to fix relationships for my friends because they themselves have given up on them. Or I at least have to "clean up the destrution" of my friends ruined relationships. Sometimes it gets annoying because really, I shouldn't care about my friends relationships more they they do...
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    Taking care of people

    This is me I just naturally help people around and LOVE feeling appreciated. BUT with people I really care about (girlfriend with depression for example) although it may be in my interest to help them to the point where they depend on me (I certainly have the ability to make them) I avoid...
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    Gender Ratio in INFJ's

    I'm a dude I've actually always assumed this as the explanation for the differing numbers in males/females being INXJ's... As for introverts and extroverts I really don't know i think it depends on the culture and individual family structures alot. I really don't know if one would be...
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    Its .blade. from the other forum, waev suggested this site to me

    Its .blade. from the other forum, waev suggested this site to me
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    Why hello thar

    Why hello thar
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    Almost a 6th sense...

    I generally do the same (keep it to myself and then give the pat on the back later) but if they bring the subject up with me I'll be honest about what I know.
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    How do you deal with someone who likes you?

    Sadly I do this too. I play with the possibilities of ever liking them back which I often feel mean for later. But in the end honesty is the best solutions. And ignoring a girl would be just plain mean, although continuing friendship while giving hints you don't like them back and ignoring the...
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    Almost a 6th sense...

    I've noticed this about 3 years ago (I'm 18), basically I can just always tell when someone has more than friendly feelings for someone else. Sometimes people come to me to me asking for advice, trying to keep it secretive who they like, but I already know. Sometimes others may tease them...
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    What Do You Do That's Annoying?

    I've been told I am annoying for: - Being too quiet - Being too nice - Taking WAAAAAY to long to make an important choice - General indecisiveness "What do you want to eat? Oh idk" - Having difficulty expressing my own complex feelings (taking a very long time to say anything) - Being...