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I haven't posted much here since last summer, but a recent exchange I had with an MBTI theorist at personalityjunkie.com has left me frazzled. After thinking about it over the past few weeks and trying to articulate my exact thoughts, they still sound muddled when I try to write them. So I need insight from other INFJs.
Usually, I find the articles on personalityjunkie.com to be incredibly accurate and insightful. However, I took issue with this one:
Dominant-Inferior Function Dynamics: Healthy vs. Unhealthy
Particularly, the example it gives for INJs "jumping the stack," or satisfying the inferior function in an unhealthy way:
"Physically producing art or otherwise working to directly actualize (Se) ideas"
The proposed "healthy" means of satisfying inferior Se is to "Perceive and generate theories/visions/ideas (Ni) that indirectly beautify or perfect the world (Se)"
I left this comment on the article:
Looking back though, I don't even stand by my example of sports and other strenuous physical activities. I was just trying to give a better example of an Se activity than art, which has many different layers and endless interpretations/movements that correspond to different cognitive functions. But no activity can be reduced entirely to one MBTI function. The more I think about it, the more absurd it seems to say "_____________ is a purely Se activity that INJs should avoid at all costs."
The two INFJ artists I mentioned were Matariki and VH, by the way. I'd like to hear what they think about this whole thing.
I got this response from a fellow INFJ who is very knowledgeable on MBTI and a big contributor to the site. I appreciate that she gave such a thoughtful response, and I gave a lot of consideration to her ideas because she is more knowledgeable on MBTI, and I find personalityjunkie.com to be the best MBTI resource on the web. But still, it just doesn't sit right with me.
Okay..... So she's basically saying that any Se involvement whatsoever taints your pure Ni vision and is unhealthy. That.... just doesn't make any sense whatsoever to me. When you get down to it, ANY motivation could be traced back to Se, if you choose to interpret it that way. Does that mean I should go "Oh no, evil Se was behind this all along, I must run the other way!"? That seems like the complete opposite of healthy behavior to me.
That's what's so frustrating! These articles that always talk about about how you need to "integrate" your inferior function for "personal growth"—they NEVER tell you HOW to do that. And now I'm being told that even a largely mental/intuitive activity like art is unhealthy for me to engage in because—oh no!—the final product is physical (Se). So if I can't even engage my Se through an intuitive outlet, how the hell am I supposed to "integrate" it for my personal growth?
What is proposed is to "Perceive and generate theories/visions/ideas (Ni) that indirectly beautify or perfect the world (Se)."
That's all good and well, but what the hell does it mean? I'm supposed to sit in an armchair for the rest of my life and just think of pretty ideas and theories? And I'm supposed to leave it to the Se types to give enough of a shit about my ideas to go and put them into action? Um, I'm sorry, but that is NOT how the world works. And who is going to pay me to just sit and think all day? How am I to make a living and support myself? By hiding from the real world and living in my own Ni bubble? I don't think so.
I just don't see how it's helpful in any way to tell people "you're wired this way because you're this MBTI type, so you should only partake in these select few activities that use your cognitive function in their natural order." There are incredibly few, if any, activities that perfectly follow the functional stack of any MBTI type. Life is full of variables and nothing fits into such neat little boxes. Life will constantly throw me into situations where I have to—gasp—use Se directly. Or Fe, or Ti, or even the other functions that aren't in my main stack, like Fi and Te (which, by the way, how do those come into play within this rigid system? How can she be sure I'm not using Fi or Ne when creating art? Just because I'm an INFJ doesn't mean I'm limited to four functions. And if Se is the core motivation of all art, as she seems to be saying, what about all the INFP artists? Where do they fit in the picture?).
I have experienced the process she describes. It sometimes leads me to perfectionism, and I can get caught up in trying to perfect tiny details of my art. But when I find myself slipping into this, I'll create a messy, spontaneous piece to get myself out of that rut.
I suggested that if art is not my sole pursuit (I also write a lot to express my Ni ideals, for example), there could be a healthy balance between dominant Ni activities and other activities. She didn't shoot down this idea but didn't really embrace it, either. It's clear that she thinks INJs should try to primarily use Ni at all times.
"But to alter Se by altering Se is a job for ESP types." This just sounds nonsensical to me—to divvy up basic tasks between MBTI types and say "this is a job for S types only." S types will all do it in a certain way. N types will have an entirely different way of approaching it. Can you imagine how stale the art world would be if only one type of personality created art? Art is supposed to speak to all types of people. The art world would be so flat and narrow if only S types contributed to it.
Also, I see no backing at all for her claim that "while it could be argued that you are “technically” using other functions in the process of making Se art, the initial purpose remains the same: to alter Se."
That's a huge assumption. Just because the process ends in altering Se doesn't mean that was the initial purpose. I don't create art for the sake of making scratches on paper. That would be completely dull and boring to me. And it offends me that she keeps reducing art to that. To say that art is essentially all about physically marking paper or manipulating materials with your hands, is a slap in the face to every conceptual art movement. I know she didn't intend it that way, but she refuses to concede that art can be traced back to a non-Se purpose.
Would that necessarily be the case for all INJ artists, though? Her personal experience should be a warning to INJ artists of a potential trap. But I don't see it as inevitable.
But, like I said before... In real life, what activity will not involve Se in some way, shape, or form? What could be more unhealthy than trying to avoid Se entirely? That would mean doing nothing!
I thought we were supposed to come to terms with our Se and *stop* viewing it as "a very slippery, tricky, and insidious animal." How is villifying and running away from the inferior function going to help anything?
Okay, that last part is totally just the Fe card. I know it because I'm an INFJ too and I pull that card all the time. What she really means is "I am criticizing and judging your artistic pursuits and I am convinced they will only end badly for you, but I don't want to offend you or start an internet argument."
I hope it doesn't sound like I'm angry at her or anything. I really did appreciate that she gave such a well thought-out response. If I sound frustrated, it's not aimed at her, but at the idea that something that has been second nature to me from the moment I was physically capable of holding a pencil, is unhealthy for me. The idea that a talent nature saw fit to bestow upon me should be wasted because an expert is telling me it's "meant for S types." Effectively, telling me "you're not a true artist. S types are the true artists, and you're an S wannabe."
It also alarms me the more I think about it, because I imagine what the world would be like if everyone knew their MBTI type and we were all told our whole lives that "Se types should have these hobbies/goals, Ni types should have these hobbies/goals," etc. I mean, can you imagine that? Think of all the wasted human potential! I put a ton of stock into MBTI theory, but in the end, it's a fixed model and personality is not. There are all kinds of variations and human beings are way too complex to be stuffed into neat little boxes. Usually I get so annoyed by people who resist MBTI because they think that it's just a label system. I see it as an extremely helpful, often accurate tool for navigating your psyche. But the strict guidelines being set forth by these MBTI theorists are, in my opinion, extremely limiting and narrow-minded. They don't allow for various motivations behind different activities. It's an overly reductionist point of view that, to me, seems more detrimental than helpful to human growth/understanding.
Gah, I feel like I'm coming across as badmouthing them behind their backs or something, which is not my intention at all. I have a lot of respect for them, and this is merely one negative idea (in my opinion) out of a gold mine of great theories on the website. But after mulling over all this for weeks, I felt I needed outside opinions. I did try to continue the discussion with her, but I felt like she had already made up her mind that my artistic pursuits were futile and that she would merely think I was reacting defensively to protect my sensitive Se. (Maybe I was wrong, but I felt that way, and decided not to keep pressing the issue).
I'll probably share the other comments later after I get feedback on this. What do you think? Am I just being defensive, or do you think their theories on the inferior function are too narrow?
Usually, I find the articles on personalityjunkie.com to be incredibly accurate and insightful. However, I took issue with this one:
Dominant-Inferior Function Dynamics: Healthy vs. Unhealthy
Particularly, the example it gives for INJs "jumping the stack," or satisfying the inferior function in an unhealthy way:
"Physically producing art or otherwise working to directly actualize (Se) ideas"
The proposed "healthy" means of satisfying inferior Se is to "Perceive and generate theories/visions/ideas (Ni) that indirectly beautify or perfect the world (Se)"
I left this comment on the article:
Mmm… I’m an INFJ and an artist, and I don’t know how I feel about creating art being used as a negative example of INJs indulging the inferior function. The way I see it, I *am* working my way down the stack, not jumping the stack. I’m starting with an Ni vision and working my way down to Se, the end result. I’m sure this is why I work so differently from most artists I know, and why it took some of my art professors a while to trust my process.
Most artists work spontaneously and intuitively, going by feel, not planning ahead too much. I spend more time visualizing and going through series of sketches than I do on the actual artwork. I can’t start until I’m sure the final product is going to end up looking like my initial vision (or close enough). After everything is in place, I can work more intuitively. But only within the framework I set.I talked to a couple of other artists on INFJ forum and they said they worked the same way. One of them said he’d discussed it with many INFJ artists, and they all said the same thing.
Jumping the stack for an INJ, I think, would be a more physical activity like sports. If I were to push myself to be a dancer or an athlete or anything of that sort, I’d be extremely unhealthy physically, mentally and emotionally.
Looking back though, I don't even stand by my example of sports and other strenuous physical activities. I was just trying to give a better example of an Se activity than art, which has many different layers and endless interpretations/movements that correspond to different cognitive functions. But no activity can be reduced entirely to one MBTI function. The more I think about it, the more absurd it seems to say "_____________ is a purely Se activity that INJs should avoid at all costs."
The two INFJ artists I mentioned were Matariki and VH, by the way. I'd like to hear what they think about this whole thing.
I got this response from a fellow INFJ who is very knowledgeable on MBTI and a big contributor to the site. I appreciate that she gave such a thoughtful response, and I gave a lot of consideration to her ideas because she is more knowledgeable on MBTI, and I find personalityjunkie.com to be the best MBTI resource on the web. But still, it just doesn't sit right with me.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and concerns. If you’ll permit me to continue the discussion, I think I can help shed light on some of the issues at play here. That said however, I am rather cautious to respond to inquiries like yours because of the way they touch on the sensitivity of the inferior function and our psyche’s desire to protect it. Please recognize that I’m not attempting to tell you that it’s wrong to be an artist only that, from both personal experience and theoretical study, such a path tends to lead to feelings of confinement rather than freedom.
The process that you describe, while it “technically” uses the stack in its functional order from the top down, is a phenomenon that I call inferior function “bolstering” – it’s a process of reinforcing a predefined endpoint already established by the desires of the inferior function which gives the appearance of being authentic (since it “technically” uses the stack from the top down), but which has essentially been “rigged” beforehand. In other words, it’s illusory.
The end goal, no matter what the “process”, has already been consciously determined by you.
It’s the difference between “envisioning” and “interpreting.” Interpreting does not imply an agenda or motive – it is intrinsic. It allows the INFJ to relinquish conscious control over Se and, instead, focus on the strength of Ni – a function which the INFJ excels at using. When the INFJ is “envisioning,” however, there is an implication that he has in mind a clear Se endpoint that he’d like to control and create. There is an implication that he wants artistic (Se) control.
Okay..... So she's basically saying that any Se involvement whatsoever taints your pure Ni vision and is unhealthy. That.... just doesn't make any sense whatsoever to me. When you get down to it, ANY motivation could be traced back to Se, if you choose to interpret it that way. Does that mean I should go "Oh no, evil Se was behind this all along, I must run the other way!"? That seems like the complete opposite of healthy behavior to me.
That's what's so frustrating! These articles that always talk about about how you need to "integrate" your inferior function for "personal growth"—they NEVER tell you HOW to do that. And now I'm being told that even a largely mental/intuitive activity like art is unhealthy for me to engage in because—oh no!—the final product is physical (Se). So if I can't even engage my Se through an intuitive outlet, how the hell am I supposed to "integrate" it for my personal growth?
What is proposed is to "Perceive and generate theories/visions/ideas (Ni) that indirectly beautify or perfect the world (Se)."
That's all good and well, but what the hell does it mean? I'm supposed to sit in an armchair for the rest of my life and just think of pretty ideas and theories? And I'm supposed to leave it to the Se types to give enough of a shit about my ideas to go and put them into action? Um, I'm sorry, but that is NOT how the world works. And who is going to pay me to just sit and think all day? How am I to make a living and support myself? By hiding from the real world and living in my own Ni bubble? I don't think so.
I just don't see how it's helpful in any way to tell people "you're wired this way because you're this MBTI type, so you should only partake in these select few activities that use your cognitive function in their natural order." There are incredibly few, if any, activities that perfectly follow the functional stack of any MBTI type. Life is full of variables and nothing fits into such neat little boxes. Life will constantly throw me into situations where I have to—gasp—use Se directly. Or Fe, or Ti, or even the other functions that aren't in my main stack, like Fi and Te (which, by the way, how do those come into play within this rigid system? How can she be sure I'm not using Fi or Ne when creating art? Just because I'm an INFJ doesn't mean I'm limited to four functions. And if Se is the core motivation of all art, as she seems to be saying, what about all the INFP artists? Where do they fit in the picture?).
The inferior function Se is very sensitive to disruptions in the beauty and harmony of the sensory environment. When the inferior Se subconsciously detects ugliness, disharmony, or sensory imperfection in the environment, it sends a coded message (subconsciously up the stack) to dominant introverted intuition that something “out there” is out of whack. The natural instinct or reaction often is to “fix” by “fixing” or “beautify” by “beautifying” – that is to create Se change that will overcome the perceived flaw. But to alter Se by altering Se is a job for ESP types. INFJ types aren’t afforded that method authentically. And while it could be argued that you are “technically” using other functions in the process of making Se art, the initial purpose remains the same: to alter Se. This process voids the ability to use Ni for the sake of Ni. Ni is now utilized exclusively for the sake of Se. There is an ulterior motive.
I have experienced the process she describes. It sometimes leads me to perfectionism, and I can get caught up in trying to perfect tiny details of my art. But when I find myself slipping into this, I'll create a messy, spontaneous piece to get myself out of that rut.
I suggested that if art is not my sole pursuit (I also write a lot to express my Ni ideals, for example), there could be a healthy balance between dominant Ni activities and other activities. She didn't shoot down this idea but didn't really embrace it, either. It's clear that she thinks INJs should try to primarily use Ni at all times.
"But to alter Se by altering Se is a job for ESP types." This just sounds nonsensical to me—to divvy up basic tasks between MBTI types and say "this is a job for S types only." S types will all do it in a certain way. N types will have an entirely different way of approaching it. Can you imagine how stale the art world would be if only one type of personality created art? Art is supposed to speak to all types of people. The art world would be so flat and narrow if only S types contributed to it.
Also, I see no backing at all for her claim that "while it could be argued that you are “technically” using other functions in the process of making Se art, the initial purpose remains the same: to alter Se."
That's a huge assumption. Just because the process ends in altering Se doesn't mean that was the initial purpose. I don't create art for the sake of making scratches on paper. That would be completely dull and boring to me. And it offends me that she keeps reducing art to that. To say that art is essentially all about physically marking paper or manipulating materials with your hands, is a slap in the face to every conceptual art movement. I know she didn't intend it that way, but she refuses to concede that art can be traced back to a non-Se purpose.
As an INFJ I have had a similar relationship to the arts and understand very well the method that you describe. I spent a number of years working tirelessly to perfect my ideas and see them come into fruition (often with much frustration that nothing ever met my idealized visions.) Majoring both in undergraduate school in studio art, and then eventually attempting again to give Se form to my Ni visions via culinary school studying pastry arts, I became so consumed with the ideal that I found myself exasperated and ill-equipped when it came to handling the Ti and Se logistical rigors involved with working with my hands and senses constantly. In hindsight, I came to realize that by trying to master one very small corner of the Se world, perfecting “pain au chocolat” for example, I was actually giving in to the impulses of my ego and inferior function. I was attempting to feel in control of the Se world that I felt was so ugly and in need of my perfect visions. It was an exercise in futility. All of the truly fundamental problems in the Se world were not going to be smoothed over by hazelnut soufflés, no matter how scrumptious.
Would that necessarily be the case for all INJ artists, though? Her personal experience should be a warning to INJ artists of a potential trap. But I don't see it as inevitable.
.What I have since come to realize, and what has been borne out in theoretical study in my interactions with various types, is that attempting to control for and grab onto the inferior function in a focused and determined way is usually what leads people into grip experiences. They come to feel trapped, not freed by the desires of the inferior function for idealism. Slipping into grip experiences is incredibly common and the inferior function is a very slippery, tricky, and insidious animal. It would be a mistake to think that the most common example of jumping the stack would be as obvious as being “physically active” via hard physical labor or playing sports, for eg. Most INFJ’s have enough good sense to stay away from many of these more obviously off-putting activities. It’s the “blurrier” combinations of Se and Ni that tend to intrigue
But, like I said before... In real life, what activity will not involve Se in some way, shape, or form? What could be more unhealthy than trying to avoid Se entirely? That would mean doing nothing!
I thought we were supposed to come to terms with our Se and *stop* viewing it as "a very slippery, tricky, and insidious animal." How is villifying and running away from the inferior function going to help anything?
Again, I hope that you don’t read the above as criticism or judgment of your pursuits, rather a cautionary tale about how it is still possible (potentially even more likely) to be undermined by the inferior function even in times when we technically perceive ourselves to be using our functional stack in its logical order.
Okay, that last part is totally just the Fe card. I know it because I'm an INFJ too and I pull that card all the time. What she really means is "I am criticizing and judging your artistic pursuits and I am convinced they will only end badly for you, but I don't want to offend you or start an internet argument."
I hope it doesn't sound like I'm angry at her or anything. I really did appreciate that she gave such a well thought-out response. If I sound frustrated, it's not aimed at her, but at the idea that something that has been second nature to me from the moment I was physically capable of holding a pencil, is unhealthy for me. The idea that a talent nature saw fit to bestow upon me should be wasted because an expert is telling me it's "meant for S types." Effectively, telling me "you're not a true artist. S types are the true artists, and you're an S wannabe."
It also alarms me the more I think about it, because I imagine what the world would be like if everyone knew their MBTI type and we were all told our whole lives that "Se types should have these hobbies/goals, Ni types should have these hobbies/goals," etc. I mean, can you imagine that? Think of all the wasted human potential! I put a ton of stock into MBTI theory, but in the end, it's a fixed model and personality is not. There are all kinds of variations and human beings are way too complex to be stuffed into neat little boxes. Usually I get so annoyed by people who resist MBTI because they think that it's just a label system. I see it as an extremely helpful, often accurate tool for navigating your psyche. But the strict guidelines being set forth by these MBTI theorists are, in my opinion, extremely limiting and narrow-minded. They don't allow for various motivations behind different activities. It's an overly reductionist point of view that, to me, seems more detrimental than helpful to human growth/understanding.
Gah, I feel like I'm coming across as badmouthing them behind their backs or something, which is not my intention at all. I have a lot of respect for them, and this is merely one negative idea (in my opinion) out of a gold mine of great theories on the website. But after mulling over all this for weeks, I felt I needed outside opinions. I did try to continue the discussion with her, but I felt like she had already made up her mind that my artistic pursuits were futile and that she would merely think I was reacting defensively to protect my sensitive Se. (Maybe I was wrong, but I felt that way, and decided not to keep pressing the issue).
I'll probably share the other comments later after I get feedback on this. What do you think? Am I just being defensive, or do you think their theories on the inferior function are too narrow?
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