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I have, SE...I really have. Just take some time to reflect before writing your shit. Take myself as an example if you will.

Oh yeah and that's why you dropped in my blog of all places out of left field to lob an insult at me because you don't understand me.... lol.

You're really going to tell me to reflect before I post in my own blog space?

Yeah. Clash of principles. Though it's fair to tell me to pull proverbial judgemental stick out of my arse and shove it where the sun don't shine. I'm tired of my reactions as well..acting like some keyboard justice warrior.

I don't even know what you think you're fighting against. I am not a target you can wear down with random attacks and insults so I don't get what you're trying to do and maybe you don't either.

If you come at me again I'm happy to respond in a way that reinforces how much you're already disgusted by me.

Fair enough, it won't happen though. I don't have anything against you. I don't know you as a person, I don't know/understanding your reasoning and I don't know what you went through yourself, though I can assume you went through rough patches yourself. But I do have something against your attitude, which -to me- is pretty arrogant.

When you described this person who has a "host of mental issues" in your blog, the way you did in that post, it ticked me off. That was just that one post and looking at it again and your posts I can see some of your reasoning, it's just a very different approach from mine. Personalities clash, yours and mine do. If you're disgusted by mine, so be it.

It's interesting that you admit you don't know anything about me but felt compelled to insult me as a person and made wild assumptions that I'm self absorbed and will never grow. You couldn't just say something about what I wrote, you had to come for ME as a human being and had to make it personal. Why do you do that?

I don't clash with you. I only interact with you when you insult me which has happened more than once. Our personalities do not clash. I have no part in this equation. There is me writing in my blog, and then there is you reacting to it and insulting me.

You sure about on the reply? I did answer with "And what's your point with this keen observation? Everyone goes through these kind of cycles, for some this is more impactful than to others. Assuming this is from Facebook or whatever public social platform, I'd assume that person is looking for affirmation. So, tell me, what's wrong with that."

Though I think there's just a lot of mistaking on the timed communication, from my side.

Don't have to interact with me when I insult you, you do have an equation. When you went with the antics of your circle BS like https://www.infjs.com/threads/circle-photografy.37494/ . I could take it personally, but that's just a dumbass thread overall..

Again, I don't know you, so I don't know why you did the thread back then (like heck I should take it as serious). But it confused me.

You cannot negate a personal insult with a follow up and have that excuse your original reaction. Your reply to me insinuated that you believed I was basically a total trash human being with no hope at "reform" and that I was too self absorbed to ever improve by whatever metrics you deem suitable. Do you not see that?

The whole circle thing has already been explained elsewhere. What is there to even take personally about something as absolutely stupid and absurd as the circle thing? Did I attack you in any way with that? No I did not. If I wanted to make it personal and attack you there would be absolutely no mistaking it.

Out of all the things you attacked me for, you came at me because I was extremely concerned that someone may be having a legit mental health breakdown and she was being enabled to NOT seek professional help and as a result it was not improving. This is NOT seeking validation on Facebook.

That's my point with our personalities clashing, you as a person do not clash with me, what you say (or how you say it) clashes with my personal values. The response I did then is total trash, fine with that. It's a different perspective. And mine is made from the assumption that personalities are built on from personal values.

The circle thing...rubbed me the wrong way because it -to me- insulted the photography thread, which I was part of. Like I said on that one, it confused me. So what's the explanation on that?

It was trash but instead of apologizing for the insult you explain it away with being a personality clash. That's an interesting approach. It's OK if you aren't actually sorry for it. To be clear, I don't expect an apology because I don't think you're actually remorseful for it as you've justified it by basically insinuating your personal values are superior to mine and that's why you insulted me.