INFJ Forum

Write, then edit.

I do! Lol. Well not all the time

Before I speak, I ask myself “is this interesting to anyone?”
But usually I think it is lolol

@neko if I did that I'd constantly be second guessing and never post anything. But you're right I guess I should leave out a lot of the personal shit I write. Lol

I think I use the personal stuff to connect and open myself up to others as a way of telling them i understand and as a way of getting it off my chest. But it's just too much mostly.

Oh I meant like IRL conversations.. I think you’re fine, don’t worry

But I really do overwhelm people. Not just one or two. A lot.

I think. More than a few say I say/type too much and give out to much unnecessary information. It's a nervous habit in person. But here it should be easier.

It could because I crave the connection and conversation, and i'm scared it won't last long bc it usually doesn't and I just... "hfutfitititessdgkoif fe sp" constantly haha

That was my theory.

You reroll to ISTP.

So should I just, deny myself of the happiness of long meaningful conversation with people I care about so they will stick around? (Sometimes, that is the way it feels, but not others, because I know I need to change this about myself, and I don't want to overwhelm people) or should I try to find people that enjoy my... err. passion? Intensity? I don't even know what to call it. :/ It's hard to find balance.

X)

@Lady Jolanda what do you mean? lol. He would kill himself if I dumped all my words on him, he literally says in the MIDDLE of what I am saying. "OHHH MY GODDDDD " But in a funny way and we laugh lol. But that is bc he hates conversation with anyone. Maybe THAT is what it is. I'm not fullfilled. :/

@Deleted member 16771 whats that face for lol

I was joking. I assumed you would know what 'reroll' meant, given your adventures in World of Warcraft.

ISTPs are known for being people of few words.