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    Childcare career

    As someone with extreme social anxiety and who is currently working on getting my degree, I would suggest you take all of the real classes you can. The more you force yourself to socialize in these "practice" settings, the easier it will be to transfer to the social encounters you'll be having...
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    Childcare career

    Are you sure you're not me? lol I'm younger than you, 22, but I already sound like I'm living your life so far ha... I can't do math. I mean, I can hardly add numbers together unless I have a calculator or pen and paper. This has made every job I've had hell as I haven't graduated college yet so...
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    INFJ lads

    haha this... especially that last part.
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    How often should you say "i love you"?

    I always say it when I'm ending phone conversations, saying bye, or saying goodnight to someone I love. That's just how I was raised. As far as telling someone I love them or them telling me in a romantic relationship, as in, reminding each other how much we love each other randomly... I...
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    Authority Figures

    I don't care how sweet or respectful an authority figure is, and my parents were very laid back but responsible... there's just something about being around authority figures that makes me feel like having an anxiety attack lol
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    Thank you:)

    Thank you:)
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    Do you worry you're insane?

    I wasn't harming anyone, so why worry? :rolleyes: I figure, deep down everyone is different, so that makes everyone "insane"... therefore, who cares? lol Can you really be insane if everyone is insane? I also had a period where I thought I might truly be insane... but later learned that it was...
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    Do you worry you're insane?

    I have before, but not anymore.
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    INFJ and number of sex partners.

    haha mmhmmm this definitely has its place :tongue: I've had my... fun, we'll say lol. I don't have anything against having sex for sex lol... I don't even really have a whole chastity belt protecting my virginity type of complex ha. I dunno, its just that I'm not really interested in it unless...
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    haha why thank youuu =P

    haha why thank youuu =P
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    Is monogamy a joke?

    This does make sense for communities who live this way, but even that has to do with survival and genetic lineage, and even in those cultures, no one is as invested in that particular child as those two people. So while tribes and certain cultures are invested in the community, a large part of...
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    INFJ and number of sex partners.

    This, pretty much. I've had zero, which seems to make the offers for sex go up lol. I'm 22. I know people my age who have had hundreds (literally.) In fact, I know more people who have had over 15 than who have had less than 5. I've never felt weird about it though, I'm just in no hurry. I...
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    Is monogamy a joke?

    No I don't think so. Of course if you have a large support system that's wonderful, but genetically speaking, only those two people, mother and father, would be biologically invested in the continuation of that genetic line.
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    Is monogamy a joke?

    I'm not sure that monogamy being "natural" really matters all that much. I mean, humans do a lot of things that aren't "natural" that our ancestors never did but have been beneficial to us. You could argue, however, that monogamy would make it easier for a man and a woman to ensure that their...
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