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    Extrovert online, introvert offline

    Ahh yes, I figured this also could be a major factor lol
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    Extrovert online, introvert offline

    So I realized something.. That I have absolutely no energy for others offline (of course there are exceptions), but that I have boundless energy online. Now I am thinking since body language and other factors aren't present that this was the cause, but then what about cam and mic chat? And so I...
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    What struggles do you face when trying to get to know someone?

    Well what I meant and didn't communicate well, is you 3 being strangers, and you end up the 1 of the 2... and your just trying to juggle them in the conversation, but you end up realizing from intuition that one of them is bored out of their skull and feels left out, and now you have to juggle...
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    What struggles do you face when trying to get to know someone?

    lol "resting bitch face"... I feel you man. I am not sure how to help you out with your anxiety problem, since I myself have a tad of that. I'd like to add onto this with a group scenario that I absolutely hate compared to the group scenario.... 1 on 2 group dynamic. Oh man I can't even begin to...
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    What struggles do you face when trying to get to know someone?

    I guess it would all depend on how much time you have spent listening. I found from watching my INTP that if you just listen and nod, and maybe say a shallow question here and there, you end up getting the information you need to say something deep to the group or directed at a question from an...
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    What's your idea of a dream date?

    Mine is rather simplistic, but I prefer it that way. Laying in bed, heads propped up on pillows, cozy soft blankets all around. Next to us a window looking out onto a field of pines, the view drenched in the grey rain. Inside is a Tv infront of us, with a thought provoking video game on. The...
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    What struggles do you face when trying to get to know someone?

    Yeah I know how you feel completely. I have found that just asking questions and then adding a little of your own experiences into the mix, a good combination. Now I dislike small talk, but if your good at it you can lead the small talk into something deeper, by asking a thought provoking...
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    So it goes.

    So it goes.