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Recent content by Trifoilum

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    Workplace Romances - Bad idea, but so much fun!

    ...honestly my alarm is ringing. Not specifically about her; no, but more like, there are so many ways shit can go wrong here. But you have made your choice; I wish you safe progress.
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    Society Today versus 5 years ago

    oh boy, much harsher. You don't even have to look far-- even this very forum feels much harsher these days than it was in 2012. but the changes HAVE started before 2012. Much longer than that, really.
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    [PAX] "Men Need Sex"

    1) Afraid not. What -is- true, however, is the fact that men are: a) bombarded more with sexual images than women (this is particularly decreasing, but SLOWLY) b) having much more availability towards sexual content (porn and pseudo pornographic images; ads, videos, films...) c) fed more with...
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    how important is your image to you

    Also a casual reminder that caring about someone's image =/= being duplicitous You can also care of being seen as genuine, or honest; or you'd want the True You™ to shine, as opposed to say, what others were saying about you.
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    how important is your image to you

    Yes? Throughout the times it's been less and less apparent (especially nowadays, given that I'm lacking the energy to keep up appearances), but the urge's still there; sometimes subtly pushing me to particular choices. And the pain when someone explicitly states they do not like me is...
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    [INFJ] infj the ni and ti loop?

    Ni and Ti becomes dissections of theories and incidents and people's psyches. Sometimes it DOES reach some spiritual or religious insight; other times.....not so much as it is running in circles, angry and aggravated at all the wrongs and flaws around. Without restraint, it just becomes a...
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    [ENTP] Things ENTPs should not do

    NTPs in particular have a tendency to wave their intellectual dicks around. It appears not only in more appropriate venues like a discussion, debate, or arguments; but also in completely ordinary situations. Sometimes it's served with a heap of bravado. Other times, assumptions of intellectual...
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    Real Black?

    1. How are the US different from the UK in that aspect, if I may ask further? 2. No, I don't think they are interchangeable. If anything, it'd be good to have BOTH.
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    Real Black?

    I WANT TO-- hmm. I don't know which one I want more, watching and seeing ruji with a braided long hair, or having my own hair braided.
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    Transgender Children

    it is a risk people are willing to take <3 just like having guns or falling in love. (.....it may sounds frivolous, but really. It's a risk people are willing to take, and it's a risk people deem worth it) There -ARE- people who don't take hormones and surgery because of the risks, but I don't...
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    Real Black?

    MMmmMmMmMMMmmmmmMMMmMMmMMMmmmMMmMMmMmMmMMmmmMMm.
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    Real Black?

    Source, if I may? Excuse me?
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    Transgender Children

    Well, YES, but I'd argue surgery / hormone therapy is much easier than providing AR glasses. :P
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    Transgender Children

    also these might be helpful. http://biisexualitea.tumblr.com/post/154164285120/reasons-i-want-top-surgery http://roygbiv.jezebel.com/stop-confusing-gender-dysphoria-with-body-dysmorphia-al-1583049920 (Jezebel, which may be distasteful for you; but do read it-- it's an exhaustive account, moreso...
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    Real Black?

    And claiming "external influences are the cause of disadvantage (or dis-priviledge)" aren't an incomplete picture? Won't lead into an us vs them mentality? Minorities already bear the burnt of respectability politics nowadays, in America or otherwise. :| I think it is important that we...