Recent content by tabbymanx

I can be quite flexible and adaptable when it comes to people. However, when it comes to my physical environment. I am much less so. I always want my environment to be neat and tidy. I am also a very regular person. Perhaps it has to do with the "J" side of me, I don't know.

I agree with you, Stormy1. I always ended up feeling resentful to the person I had a conflict with. Avoiding a short pain ended up becoming a long pain. I recognize that is not a good attitude. The trick I have yet to learn is how to recognize that automatic response and stop myself from doing...

First of all, I am new. Hi everyone! I have been wondering about a trait/weakness, or whatever you want to call it, I have - Do you give in easily during a conflict? I always find myself doing that, almost to the point of automatic. Usually I do that just to get out of the confrontation but...